or am I just overreacting? Okay I used to drive with a driving instructor but he is too busy so now my mom switched me to another. I only need a few lessons and I will be ready to get my license! But the new guy I am driving with makes me uncomfortable... while I am driving he is always talking meanly (not to me about other people)... he is teaching me new stuff that clashes with what the first guy taught me (and the other guy was the one who was teaching me the right way)... he also doesn't watch me when I am driving and doesn't tell me any mistakes I make. But the one thing that really bothers me is he keeps touching my thigh and stuff. I know it probably isn't a big deal but I am more sensitive with things like that because I was abused once (like sexually...) and it makes me uncomfortable. Am I just overreacting to this? I mean I don't think I am... what do you guys think? It makes me uncomfortable while I'm driving and I wanted to hear everyone's opinion.

Thanks 4 your help! =)
Okay to the 2nd person... I am too shy to say anything... I usually just deal with the discomfort.
Oh and thanks for all your opinions, I appreciate it! =)
Oh to Kathryn my mom doesn't know how to drive but thanks 4 the suggestion! =)
Okay I know if I told my mom she wouldn't make me go to the driving lesson I have scheduled with him that is tommorrow so I want to tell her what's up but I am afraid I will hurt the instructor's feelings... I know that sounds ridiculous and I don't know why! Should I cancel them?

By the way thanks again 4 all your help!

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Not overreacting! Should ask to switch the guy, but first talk to yr family about this.

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He shouldn't be touching your thighs or touching you in anyway sexually. Tell him to stop. If he continues to do this, do demand him to stop and tell him that you will charge with sexual harassment. If he continues, pull the vehicle aside when it is safe to do so, and you can charge him with sexual harassment.

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Don't worry about hurting his feelings. Unless you have some kind of contract with this person just cancel the appointment and start getting lessons from someone else. That is the last thing you need to deal with when you are learning to drive. It's too important to learn to drive the right way.

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Tell your mom what's up straight away and get a new driving instructor!!!!!!!!!!

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