What are some ways to stop my son from masturbating?

Cathrine N · #1 06-07-2007, 12:46

Dylan C · #2 06-07-2007, 20:23

castrate him

hellooo (= · #3 06-07-2007, 21:25

put pictures of condolisa rice everywhere that he masturbates. That should do hte trick

debby<3 · #4 06-07-2007, 22:45

tell him that everytime he masterbates god kills a kitten. lol. it worked for my brother. haha.

rhea k · #5 06-07-2007, 22:55

talk to him about it. tell him its not normal at such a young age to do something like this. but dont get angry, itll become worse.

little_scottie · #6 06-07-2007, 23:05

Well how old is he. And there is nothing from with masterbation. It's a natural way to learn how your body is pleased, and would you rather he was out having sex instead of it and got some one pregnant? Its completely Natural!

vodka_vixen86 · #7 07-07-2007, 00:05

depends on his age... if a teen than you cant its a natural thing and lots of guys do it... it feels good obviouslyif only a kid then send him to a psychiatrist

lonelywannabe · #8 07-07-2007, 00:55

masturbating doesnot have any ill effects...then why do you want to stop your son from masturbating.better tell him directly what you intended to say coz he is your son and what is your problem..if he still don't listen leave him alone coz he would come to know after sometime...afterall everyone matures and can think on their own.they wouldbe decent outside and wouldnot disturb your status in the society.forget it you got to do many things to your son..

NeedCoffee · #9 07-07-2007, 01:05

Give him his own computer.

Nikki, Foo' · #10 07-07-2007, 02:49

tell him hes doing it wrong & show him how with his body as a prop.

jronemus · #11 07-07-2007, 02:58

Why are you trying to stop your son from masturbating? All males go through this when they are growing up. Maybe if he was doing it in public places, or if it was durring all hours of the day it would be a problem, but based on the open and general context of the question, I think that you are being a little unreasonable to try to make him stop masturbating all together. How old is he? I remember that I discovered how to do it when I was probably 8 or 9... Trust me, just make sure that he is aware of the consequences of sex(if he knows what sex is yet, and if not, this may be the right time to tell him) as he grows up, and that may deter him from trying to get in the sack a little too early. However, I will say that if you associate shame with the act of masturbation, then he may end up with feelings of confusion about his urges, and inturn, this may affect his psychological developement when it comes to sex and relationships in the future.

mazza · #12 07-07-2007, 05:15

How old is he? Little kids usually explore. If he is young tell him a bird will come and peck it off he keeps doing it.

norielorie · #13 07-07-2007, 05:57

At any age masturbating is normal for kids. I know it is hard to think of children as sexual creatures. But they learn fast that it feels good. The only thing you can do is explain that is something that needs to be done in his bedroom or bathroom. You don't want to see it. And no it does not mean he is going to be more sexual then any other boy.

The_Phantom · #14 07-07-2007, 06:08

You don't. It doesn't concern you. Leave him alone. Does his dad know that you're obsessed with your son's sex life and are trying to interfere with his natural development?

Miss Ashley · #15 07-07-2007, 06:17

well first off how old is he? second, i wouldnt even try, it may be disgusting to think about but every guy does it, enjoys it, and will always.if you are really concerned, have him talk to someone at a catholic church. i came from a catholic family, trust me, they will straiten him out.