Ok so we had a 9 year old's party with 9 other girls. During the party all the children were sweeties except for one. The child put a small water balloon in her mouth. When my 12 year old daughter (who was running the party with her friend) told her to take the balloon out of her mouth and if she did it again she would have to go home she questioned her. Then when we were playing a fun water game with sponges, my daughter saw her licking the sponge. There were also another incident where she put a water balloon down her bathing suit and it came out the bottom and she pretended she had a baby. She also put 2 water balloons in the top of her bathing suit. Finally we made her sit out a little while and she was being rude while she was sitting their. It was a Pool Party Sleepover and her mom is coming to pick her up. Should I tell her how things got out of hand?? If so how should I say it??

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Wow well just tell her but be very considerate.Also i would not have this little girl over anymore sounds like she's a little more in touch with certain things she shouldn't be.You dont want your daughter learning that Good luck.

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Even if her behavior wasn't bad or inappropriate, it was certainly strange. You should tell the mother, but maybe direct it as a question. Like, I wonder why she would do that? (lick a sponge). I wonder why she would put balloons in her mouth/in her shirt? Then you can see the mother's reaction without putting her on the defense. I would try not to invite that child back.

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