I'm 15 and i'm 14 weeks pregnant. I'm so worried about having my baby, there's not a day i don't think about it. I'm totally against abortion, and i'm NOT going to adopt my baby out. My mom is helping support me with everything, which is good, and my boyfriend has stuck with me through everything, and thank god is sticking with me through this. He's already started working 2 jobs, and is going to join the whole national gaurd thing to get us some money to start out. Anyway, i just can't stop worrying. I'm still going to go to public school, my mom cannot afford homeschool since she will be helping support us. For all the teen mothers out there, or even teen mother supporters, give me a little advice and guidance please? Again for teen mothers, did your whole pregnancy and parenting go pretty smooth, or at least a little smooth, when you thought it totally wouldn't? Please no judgemental answers..Another thing i'm worried about (definatly the LEAST of my worries) is that i'm so small and i want to keep my small figure. What are some tips on keeping stretch marks down and keeping skinny after delivering?My boyfriend is 16.lovelyinkedlady, obviously you don't understand what it feels like to be in this position. Yes i made a f*cking mistake, and yes i regret it. Don't call my boyfriend a little boy either, because obviously he's damn man enough to stand by me through this and support his own child. And i'm not the first teen to get pregnant at my school, so don't even start with me on that.

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You're right - keeping your figure is the least of your worries.You're too young to be having sex and having a baby - I guess you know that - so you are going to have to grow up fast. Concern for yourself will have to come second to concern for your baby. Thank God you have lots of support from boyfriend and Mum - you are going to need it. On the POSITIVE side! - your baby is going to be an endless source of joy, as well as dirty nappies and all the rest. You will love this child as you have never loved anyone else in your life. You also have the joy of teaching him/her to talk, walk, and everything else. You will also LEARN an enormous amount in a short time. Enjoy!

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I don't know much about being a teen mother sugar... I have never been there... surround yourself with positive people who love you just the way you are... baby and all! You are beautiful, and have a good heart!I do know a bit about stretch marks though! go to Walgreen's or any drug store and pick up some liquid vitamin E. Rub it on the stretch marks and it should help! Just remember to eat healthy. Lots of veggies and fruit and LOTS OF WATER! before and after the baby! Keeping a low key exercise program going will help too (even with the baby, just keep it simple!)Good Luck Hun! You will be great!

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Your right, worrying about your little figure and stretch marks should be the LEAST of your worries...and that all depends on how big your baby gets, and how fast you put the baby weight on. Your young, and your metabolism should still be pretty good, so don't worry so much about the weight coming off...it will come off when it comes off. Don't worry about that now...pregnant women are all beautifulYour lucky that your boyfriend is sticking by you. Lets just hope that he remains that way after the baby gets here. There are women that don't have any of the dreaded morning sickness and nausea that comes with pregnancy, but I can guarentee that you will experience all the hormonal changes that you body will go thru. No parenting goes 'smoothly'. Parenting is a learning experience. There are no 'perfect' mothers or fathers out there, so don't think of yourself as a failure if you can't make the baby stop crying, or you don't know why the baby can't get used to nighttime or daytime. Parenting is alot of hard work, but probably even more so because of your age. Honey, your still growing emotionally and mentally. Be glad that your mother is standing by you. If anything, ask your mother for advice. I know that's what I would've done if I had gotten pregnant at 15. There are TONS of books out there that you can read about pregnancy and websites that you can go on to. Good luck with everything and I hope everything works out for you. You'll be in my thoughts.

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I think that your boyfriend is a real man to stick by you most boys in high school would move on but you have a good one oh and breast feeding will take that weight off and dont give your baby a pacifier that only makes them have buck teeth and still ****ing their finger when their 14. My cousin does that. And good luck with your baby!!!!!! Congratulations

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Hi dear.This is very unfortunate. You, but most congratulate you for your strong moral values. You seem to have lots of support, which is very important for you and the baby. Yes you have fallen behind and got yourself a big responsibility. Your boyfriend by the looks of it haven't finish high-school either. Down the line, please avoid getting pregnant again. I am a single mother of 2 and it is really difficult. Try to make commitment with your boyfriend and see if your mom will help you guys finish high school. Maybe since you go to school during the day, ask him to go to adult school during night. If he is supporting you through his job, be very considerate with him and know he will be tired.Yes, you have fallen behind, but it is not the end of the world. I am sure undertaking this responsibility will help you mature at a much faster rate and help you make wiser decisions down the line.Best of luck sweetheart

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