my boyfriend and i are 13.?

Aimz-x · #1 02-07-2007, 20:26

we both want sex, but no babies.how accurate are condoms?whats the best?

AshReneeM · #2 02-07-2007, 21:05

13 years old and wanting to have sex? OMG! You are BOTH WAY YYY TO YOUNG TO HAVE SEX! You need to talk to your parents about this!!!

Eliza E · #3 02-07-2007, 21:16

u r joking. Do you WANT to screw up your lives? i think this is a fake question its so bad.

Qween*B · #4 02-07-2007, 22:35

Nothing is 100% accurate except not having sex.You can still get STD's & Pregnantwith Birth Control & Condoms.

Scotty H · #5 02-07-2007, 22:45

ok, just remember though.. You're 13 and really have no idea what you're getting yourself into. No matter how ready you think you are, I would not do it.

Angelus · #6 02-07-2007, 22:57

You are too young. If you are not old enought to take care of a baby then you are not old enough to have sex. Its not something to kill time with and you can never give your gift of virginity to someone ever again. Don't do it.

Christine W · #7 02-07-2007, 23:06

Try not having sex in the first place you are only thirteen pace yourselves!

jenny_10_12 · #8 02-07-2007, 23:18

wait....if you really like each other then wait....You never know you could always get a baby...I had my first baby at 15, so i know its hard having kids at a young age

anonymous g · #9 02-07-2007, 23:30

i think ur a lil too young to be having sex. there is no stoppin having a kid things CAN go wrong

Blue R · #10 03-07-2007, 00:35

You're 13, that's too young to have sex. Please, wait.Your body isn't done growing yet.

randadell · #11 03-07-2007, 00:46

Please dont do it. You are too young to have sex, trust me, I was 13 once too. I do applaud you for knowing to use a condom, but it is not 100% effective, against pregnancy or some STD's like genital warts. Please reconsider waiting until you are older. I lost my virginity at 17 and I ended up regretting it as an adult.

Foxybaby1976 · #12 03-07-2007, 08:46

Do not have sex at 13. You are still developing children. Condoms are not 100% reliable and if they are misused in the slightest bit there can be large consequences. The only 100% safe birth control is abstaining. If you are determined to have sex I stongly suggest talking to your mother about birth control. And definitely use a condom with spermicide.

thezookeeper · #13 03-07-2007, 08:55

what?? Please wait. Condoms are only 60% safe. Not even a woman with her tubes tied can be completely safe from getting pregnant. If you don't want a baby, then don't have sex its the ONLY way to not get pregnant with 100% accuracy.

jbmiller06 · #14 03-07-2007, 10:25

I know you are probably tired of hearing that 13 is too young to have sex, but it is true. Condoms can be up to 98% effective, if used correctly. It is estimated that up to 50% of condom users don't use them correctly. Keep that in mind!!!!!!!!!You should really try to wait longer. Sex is something that should only be taken on when you are prepared to take on everything that comes along with it- that includes a baby. Starting to have sex at such an early age also increases your risk of cervical cancers too. I could go on and on about all the reasons why you should wait... There are lots of other things you and your bf can do that do not involve sex. I wish I could explain to you all the potential dangers you put yourself at the potential of by doing it at 13.

oOoLaLaiTzSina · #15 03-07-2007, 11:05

I lost my virginity at 16 and you are younger then I am...I regret it so so much. I know you are probably thinking it's no big deal...that we are all stupid for saying you are to young but I wish I would've had someone tell me that I was to young! You have so much time, hold off for awhile, enjoy being a teen!

bernie2u4 · #16 03-07-2007, 12:05

Way too young to have sex. How lame would it be for mommy, daddy AND baby to have to get dropped off at the mall??? Why don't you guys keep watching cartoon network or something?