im a 17 yr ole virgin and boyfriend 22?

smunchz · #1 03-08-2007, 14:17

its july rite nw... im 17 bday in oct n my bf is 22 bday in august. im a virgin n me n my bf have known each otha about a yr now n we attend the same college n we've bin 2getha about 4 mnths now n he pressurin me to have sex and i really dnt feel like im ready n i think he is so anxious bcuz im a v so its makes me feel even more less interested in doin it wit him bt im still temptd bcuz he wants to give me n oral n i really do have feelings for him... can i get any advice on this....shud or shud i not?

sara · #2 03-08-2007, 14:17

well.. the advise I would give and I wish someone would give me back 10 years ago... say no to sex! or learn more about birth controls..i was a teen mom and everyone laugh at me... the baby daddy.. gone.. i'm happy with my daughter but i wish i was more ready to have her.. more to give her. my parents paid for all her clothes.. bottle, diapers... so if you are really really gonna do it.. please get a condom.. and use it.

J.R · #3 03-08-2007, 14:17

i think you shouldnt. i also think a years is not enought to know a person. let the relationship grow and if he is pressuring you, then just tell him you dont feel ready and that you dont want to o it and if he really likes you and cares about you, he will understand. ( i know this is like a cliche but is true) the best advice i could give you is: wait until you`re married.

organized chaos · #4 03-08-2007, 14:18

you should WAIT until you are ready and he should honer and respect you decision to do so

jrsangel81250 · #5 03-08-2007, 14:20

"he pressurin me to have sex"...thats where i stopped reading because any guy that does that doesn't really love or respect you in the least!

i say stop dating him 17 even 18 and 22 are to far apart!...im 19 almost 20 and my bf just turend 21 and its hard cuz he can do alot of things i can't! just wait till your over 21 to date some one older!

taintpunch · #6 03-08-2007, 14:20

learn english first

laura · #7 03-08-2007, 14:20

NO! If he's pressuring you, he's not the right one. You will regret this, I promise. When it's the right guy, he won't need to pressure you.

WAIT! You can't go back, just remember that.

?alicia?™ · #8 03-08-2007, 14:20

Hi There : )

I think that you are old enough at 17 to make your own decision as your 18th birthday is coming soon about what 1.5 months away!!! I think you should make your own decisions now,,,,,i think you should ask your body if you are ready...if your scared then you are probably not ready.....if you are sure you are ready and you feel the time is right....then you are ready!!! Do what your body says!!!

Piya · #9 03-08-2007, 14:21

Don't! Wait until you're married....it's much more romantic and special. You should dump him if he keeps pressuring you.

Sexxiluvrajjy · #10 03-08-2007, 14:22

If your not absolutely sure u want to then dont...I also noticked that u said u had a lot of feelings for him instead of saying that you loved him...think to yourself...can I see myself marrying him?...Do I love him...Can I handle the consequenses of sex...You have something precious and once you give it up youll never get it back...If he really loves you he'll wait for you...read the lyrics to the song S-E-X...it has a really powerful message that u dont get out of a lot of music today1!!!

onitram5 · #11 03-08-2007, 14:23

If you have any doubts whatsoever, then NO! You said he's pressuring you. If he cares at all about you, he'll wait until you say you are ready. You don't want to regret your first time.

Layla · #12 03-08-2007, 14:24

i lost mine when i was 16... with a 27 year old and he did what ur man is doing... he turned out to be an ass as most of them do but just do it when YOU feel ready. and to this day i just keep thinking what the hell he was thinking when i was at his house that day coz what he did was really wrong. he'll tell you everything you wanna hear... i kept gettin told that i didnt look my age.... i just wish now i acted my age and waited.

your only a virgin once...

good luck xx

Baby B · #13 03-08-2007, 14:26

only if u are ready...dont do it just because he wasnts to

Shaina · #14 03-08-2007, 14:29

I can't believe I actually read and interpreted whatever language your typing in. Wait until marriage. Don't be ignorant.

JJMom · #15 03-08-2007, 14:36

You should wait. You should not be pressured into doing anything. But please, start writing in complete sentences. Does anyone under 30 write complete words anymore?