should I tell them? Well, I have a secret I need to tell my parents about my love life. I need to tell them, but I am afraid of the results... I am in love, but with a anime character. No, its not for her body or that, It's called love, because I love her looks, her personality, and her lifestyle. Yes, that's weird, but please, I need help with this. I want to tell them, because I know that this problem can affect my future, so I wanna see if they can help me. But how should I tell them? Should I even tell them? Please help

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If you are in love with an animated character...it would be wise to say nothing because it will go no where and mean nothing t anyone. If you are in love with a person..tell them up front..If you are in love with a gay person and you are a gay person..find someone you trust to be a 3rd party present so it will help break the monotony of telling them alone.. Your question doesn't really specify what you mean..i guessed.

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you have got to be kidding!! What effect will this have on your life?? She ISN"T REAL!! I wouldn't tell them, they might lock you up in physco ward!

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say ''mom, I'm in love with a cartoon character'' simple as that.

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tell them and dont be afraid if they love you they will accept your new love . but do get out more and date

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I totally totally understand how you feel. Parents still treat their kids like babies. They don't understand that you are growing up. I think that you should tell your parents this: Mom, dad, I have a little secret I've been keeping but I feel that I should tell you...I fell in love with a cartoon character. And I was afraid to tell you guys because you would laugh at me or yell at me but at least now I got it off my chest. Thanks for listening mom and dad. Tell them those exact words. And if they still make a big deal out of it, tell them...Mom, Dad...you guys fell in love with each other and I am growing up. I really love this character and I told you guys the truth because I trusted you, not laugh/yell (whatever else they might do) at me! I wanted some support, but if you guys arent going to help me then there was no point of sharing my feelings. Say that! Seriously, your parents have no control over your personal love life. They have control of protecting you, but not of your love life. If you seriously love then it is your choice. Your parents can't do anything about it. But I am sure this is just a stage. When I was 5, I had a major crush on Tommy (when he turned older) from the Rugrats. LOL!

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its ok some guys are in love with their car, or whatever-its not really in love but whatever we perceive is real to ourself.let your parents know you enjoy Anime and that many do also-let them share in your happiness and innocence too.and I recommend you take a walk on the spiritual Anime to real life side too= I did=prayer and salvation will loosen you up in more ways than one, it will not let you make a fool out of yourself and do things that your body will regret to say nothing of regrets to those that are with you or recongnize you now or in the future.this is how I came to know the difference and jump for joy and was out singing and excited today as in every day since I came to know His truth, freedom and joy= you are a precious person.why not get something better than what you have lived with-or literally are dying with not just spiritually dead.this helped me to get higher than vodka and help from above too=learn Bible for salvation in Jesus there.this helped me understand Jesus=John 3 to repent/ask forgiveness for my sins and be born again. Revelation 3:19&20 Jesus speaking "I love you and ask you to repent. Behold I stand at your heart door and knock, if you ask me in, I will come in and begin a friend ship with you and you with me."I prayed and let Jesus into my heart now he is my savior Messiah and best friend.thanks again friend in Jesus Psalm 23 The Lord is my Shepherd/guides me like I was his sheep (bahh bahh) they dont know what water to drink even and will drink poison water without the shepherd to guide and protect them.why not come to get some help more than anything, help from above in Jesus, and a new beginning -something to put dance in your steps as people say of me too. prayin for your help to help yourself, David

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i don't know why you think you need help or to tell anybody about your love. Do you always kiss and tell? Even your parents?golly, maybe you should be focusing on something else...

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whats your age my dear? you said...in love with the anime! well better tell it to your parents..no your aren't weird..its a nutural feelings..go and tell your parents that you are in love but in different manner, they might help you and give you some advice. dont worry it wouldnt affect your future...its beyond your control..keep still of what made you happy, in that way you will enjoy your present....as time goes by, you will realize its a fun, as you grow older, and looking back, you will smile because from the past youve learnt something. then you can go on to the future with full of spirit. stop worrying my dear.

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