im 17y.o..i have a boyfriend in other country..and we only communicate through the net and phone calls...we've been together for more than 2years...and i really wanted to meet him personally..but i think he doesn't have plans to meet me in my country...though he have his own job...he kept telling me he have plans..but i wonder why is it that until now..nothing happens...he is also proccesing for his papers to go to finland for his studies...but that will take him for 2years to finish....i feel that he is only making me expect for nothing...and he always ask me to give him sometime because he said he is working for it..but i dont think that he is really working for it..because...everytime we talk,it seems that he has no plans at all...what shall i do...do i need to wait for him for ages...i know too that he loves me....but i've waited so much he told me before that we might meet,but then he changed his mind..i expected a lot already...

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You should move on if he won't make an effort to get together. You deserve more, and it sounds like he's just 'putting you on hold', and you obviously are not ok with it. 2 years ios plenty of time to take a trip, and the fact he keeps putting it off shows he has no real intentions of making this relationship concrete. Dump him, move on, find someone you can actually meet and see frequently.

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