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 How to Be a Memorable First Date
How to Be a Memorable First Date
Want to be a great first date and have them coming back for more? Steps - Think about what makes someone come home from a first date and tell their friends, "Wow, my date was awesome! I had such a great time getting to know this person and can’t wait to see them again." While it might have been the revealing outfit they wore or maybe even their cologne, it was most likely something more than that. Things that make a first date truly memorable are often found in the mental more than the physical connections.
- Be a true optimist. Try and open yourself up to thinking positively when out on a first date. As the old cliche goes, try to see the glass as half full rather than half empty. Ignore the fact that you prefer to date men that are 6 feet or taller when this guy is only 5 foot 9. A person’s height shouldn’t determine his level of intelligence or sense of humor. Try not to pay attention to the fact that she has brown hair when you really prefer blonde's. She could turn out to be one of the coolest people you’ve met in a while.
- Be a good listener: On a date, a great listener knows how to keep the conversation moving with a healthy mix of give and take. The more you focus on asking the other person questions, the more you’ll learn about him or her. If you allow your date to really open up and tell you about who he or she is, it’s highly likely that you'll get the same treatment.
- Be flexible. When it comes to a first date, one of the most difficult parts can be simply agreeing on where to go and what to do. If the other person went to the trouble of taking the reins and making all the arrangements, be as flexible as you can. So you don’t really love Chinese food, and they booked an 8 pm reservation at Ming’s Palace. Should you say something? It’s probably not wise in the case of a first date. Surely there must be something simple on the menu that you could be happy with. Try and appreciate the fact that the other person took the time to set this whole thing up and just go along with it. You might even end up finding that you love General Tso’s chicken after all.
- Be yourself. This one is perhaps the most important of all the points. If you’re not being yourself on a first date, you are truly doing a disservice to the other person. They agreed to go out with you because there was something there that piqued their interest. If you seemed so funny on the phone, but on the date you are all stiff and serious, that’s not a real reflection of you. If you think of yourself as a silly and playful person, don’t hide that from your date. Be yourself and let your true energy shine through. If it turns out that your date isn’t interested in that side of you, then you’ll know it’s time to move on.
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