How to Make a Girl Become Obsessed With You

If you want to be attractive to a lot of girls, here are some tips to help you reach your goal.

Steps
  1. Be her hero: Whenever she is in trouble or worried about something, don't just sit there with nothing to say. Acknowledge that you don't have all the answers, and that you may not know exactly what she's going through,
    • Ask her how you can help, but don't insist that she let you. Be patient with anything she goes through and be supportive. When you can make a difference, do so without hesitation, but also cautiously, as you don't want to hurt her in any way.
  2. Be calm: If you're the kind of guy that gets sweaty and stutters his words when he's around a girl, then just calm down. Girls don't bite! Just be yourself.
  3. Don't lie about yourself: If you try to be emotional like in cheesy movies, then she'll think you're a freak.
  4. Don"t fly too deep into the "friends zone": Stop acting like you're "just a friend" for too long or that's exactly what you'll ever be to her.
  5. Don't rush: Give it time. This is where a lot of guys screw up. Don't mistake her kindness for her liking you as more than a friend just yet. She will grow on you eventually.
    • Make sure you know that she likes you than more than just a friend, it can cause some sticky situations.
  6. Care for your image: If you're wearing solid colored t-shirts that you bought from Walmart that don't even fit you, old worn out shoes that you mowed the lawn in 100 times, then you're a total turn-off.
  7. Be charming: You at least must have some kind of charm to appeal to a woman.
    • Think of the leading men from old movies; It's OK to watch them if it's for research purposes.
  8. Be witty: Girls love guys who are great in conversations. It is also a show-off of intelligence, part of subconscious evolutionary preference.
    • If you don't possess wit, make sure you have other things to show off your intelligence. Academic excellence, athletic achievement, or any kind of creative abilities whether artistic or literary will do. It could be mathematical, spatial, logical - analytical or just about anything to show that you have a highly developed brain.
  9. Be as attractive as possible: This is a very important thing, accounting for something like 50% of preferences; above all other except when the person is sad, lonely, desperate and vulnerable. Remember that tall and lanky isn't always what a girl looks for, but sometimes broad shoulders can mean a world of difference when she wants to feel safe and protected.
  10. Try to be funny: This relaxes the girl. A person is more responsive and receptive to suggestions when relaxed. This is similar to being witty, but with higher importance. It helps you connect with her logically/intellectually. She will enjoy your company and won't be bored. The girl will also think highly of you even though you're not really that good.
  11. Display intelligence and confidence: Women who are rich, successful and independent want someone who is an equal.
  12. Be financially independent: Being wealthy works best, but at a minimum, be able to pay your own way. Women don't like freeloaders. Women want a man who can provide.
  13. Be secure and reliable: Part of security is confidence but it really involves more than that. There are other security items like physique or intellect.
Tips

  • Have an excellent self-image, then be yourself.
  • Never use corny or strongly sexual pick-up lines unless you've known her for a short time and can joke about such things, only in jest!
  • Don't keep talking for hours, give her a chance to talk. More than that, let her do most of the talking. Don't not talk at all, that will tell her that you're bored and not paying attention.
Warnings

  • If a woman says she isn't interested, back off. No means no!