too ashamed to ask anyone else?

arz · #1 27-06-2007, 21:35

i was molested when i was a child, after a while i would get this strange feeling inside and i felt so dirty. when i had my first orgasm it felt the same way....i felt dirty for a while when i had sex and had an orgasm....for a while i just didn't want to do it anymore!..my question is since the feeling was the same, could it have been an orgasm? i was only about nine or ten?

Bouncer · #2 27-06-2007, 21:46

No, just left a mark in your psyche, seek therapy!

de-de · #3 27-06-2007, 21:55

It Could Have Been Since You Felt Like That Before!!never Be Ashamed It Was Not Your Falt The You Were Molestedhope This Helps!

Tiff · #4 27-06-2007, 22:05

If you're asking if it was possible for you to orgasm at that age while you were being molested, then, yes it is possible. I seriously suggest you seek a psychologist to help you think about sex in a healthy way and to not associate it with past and traumatic experiences.

Midia V · #5 27-06-2007, 22:15

I doubt it was an orgasm you felt as a child. However, the event triggered something negative that is now taking an effect on your current sex life. Instead of pleasure, you are experiencing guilt and shame for your actions. In order to avoid a possible crisis with your current and possible future lovers and to help you personally overcome this, I would advise you to seek professional treatment.

dr.sarah_brown · #6 27-06-2007, 22:25

Hey there I know this is sorta embarrassing to ask. It could have been an orgasm. However I suggest a doctor and perhaps counseling. You can get over this horrible experience. If you want to talk about I would be glad to help you out. My email is dr.brown@yahoo.com

Golden Ivy · #7 27-06-2007, 22:45

That sounds so awful I hope you are okay. You may want to seek therapy it can help change lives and make you feel better. Or you could also buy or check out books at your local library Therapeutic books. Today I was at my Therapist I saw on her shelf lots of books for people who have been sexually abused. Sorry I can't remember any of the tittles. Sometimes keeping a journal can also help by letting all your thoughts out instead of keeping them inside. You can also check out this site www.psychcentral.com you can meet and talk to people who have been sexually abused and all sorts of stuff. It is a great site so supportive and helpful. God bless you I hope you are okay!

tundra24bunnie · #8 27-06-2007, 22:57

PLEASE PLEASE DON'T BE ASHAMED!!!I was molested by an uncle when I was young.I know that dirty feleling your are talking about.Don't ever be embarassed about what happend to you.I still get them sometimes.But have to realize that what he did to me was not love.It was just sick.Don't guage what you have now with what was done to you.Their two diferent things all together.Don't beat yourself up about it.It took me along time to get to this point.I still struggel with it today.you probably did not orgasm at such a young age.It's the act that makes you feel dirty???My thoughts are so all over the place.Never had a question hit me this hard.Hope something here helps.And thank you.You've helped me too.

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