My ex recently got a new gf and I still love him. He moved away last year but we still went out. Anyway, he never calls me anymore(we used to talk all the time) At night I just get really sad and feel alone. I have OCD so it makes i worse. I suffer from some depression too(not serious). I just miss him a lot and I told him how I feel. He talks to me a LITTLE more but he says he will call me and he never does. It gets a lot worse at night when I'm trying to sleep. Is there any way to solve my problem and moving on isn't an option. Or is there something that could give me at least temporary relief from the sadness so I can sleep? I just think of them kissing and I feel terrible. We dated for a year! He says he still loves me a little. He also says he doesn't know why he isn't going out with me. I am sad AND confused! Please help! Thanks!

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Your doc can prescribe anti-depressants to get you through the hump. If you are on meds for your OCD, keep taking them as prescribed. Think about who you were before you met him. In what ways have you changed? Was it for the better? Was if for the worse? What have you learned from your relationship? Sometimes, if we can take something (like a lesson) from the relationship, it makes it easier to let it go.

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You mentioned you have OCD,,,could that be part of the reason he is no longer with you, and are you trying to overcome the problem by seeing a professional (counselor)? You obviously cannot do this on your own and FYI, moving on has to be an option, since he has. Be realistic and get yourself in therapy. You'll feel better.

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