How can I stop masturbating for good ? I feel like an different person when I'm...

micheal j · #1 25-06-2007, 19:05

...doing it , why ????? I am a christian and I started masturbating about 2 years ago and I can't stop. I feel my computer is the problem, and I think I need to get off of it, but everywhere I look, there is something that jogs my memory and I rember some porn I watched. Everytime I do masturbate, I feel like its all about me and I dont let anyone disturb me, I end up very rude and I hate it. Im 15, and I really want to stop. Please dont say "why would you want to stop" becasue I have done it enough and I want to stop. Please give any advice if possible.

googleisit · #2 25-06-2007, 19:25

get a girlfiend to do it for you!

vinster82 · #3 25-06-2007, 19:35

It's very natural. It would be like trying to stop being gay. Just go with it.

jbone907 · #4 25-06-2007, 19:55

I think if you accept it as an okay thing, it will clear everything up. You probably get rude about it because you guilt yourself unnecessarily over it. There's NOTHING wrong with it, despite the immaturity that surrounds the word on playgrounds everywhere.

timandrea27103 · #5 25-06-2007, 20:16

I think you need to talk to an adult such as a pastor or psychologist. If you really want to change, it is going to take a lot of support and dedication. Porn can be an addiction, just like drugs or alcohol.

zen · #6 26-06-2007, 05:58

For some reason, you are feeling guilty..don't. It's a natural way of releasing tension..it's not a sin. It's a private thing, like pooping. Your'e 15, hormones are surging.....normal.

grace_land · #7 26-06-2007, 06:54

Give this problem over to God. Ask God for forgiveness and the wisdom to stop this sinly habit for good. He will help you! Don't worry, your heart is in the right place. You want to stop because you, not someone else, wants you to stop. If needed, get rid of your computer if you think it's the problem. It won't be for good, just until you're completely over this.If you need motivation, just think of what your future wife will think if she catches you fondling yourself instead of going to her to please your desires. This is happening with my sister and her husband right now, and she feels cheated and that there is something wrong with her.

seano · #8 26-06-2007, 07:03

I'm was in the same situation when I was 15. But my energy and sex drive is so high that when I masturbate and ejaculate, right after I go and play sports with no problem whatsoever...In your case, the key to stopping masturbation is to keep yourself occupied. If you sit around the house or your room all day you will be tempted to masturbate very easily and it's so difficult to control. Go out in the morning (horniest time) and work or do something to keep you busy until the late afternoon. Go home change clother, run some airons, do your daily chores, and just stuff that keeps you busy. That will keep you from masturbating, trust me.

Jada J · #9 26-06-2007, 07:36

I agree with grace_land. But I don't think anything is wrong with it. It's a natural part of sexuality. A lot of people do it, i dont, but your not the only one.

diva_500 · #10 26-06-2007, 07:50

Masturbation, according to scientific research, is actually good for you physically and psychologically.However, if you are a Christian, pornography is a big no-no.Perhaps if you focus your energy on something a bit more constructive, i.e. reading a book, studying your Bible, taking up a sport, going out with friends, anything to take your mind off of masturbation, you might be able to over come the habit.Remember, being in tune with yourself physically and emotionally is a good thing, but if it becomes an obsession, it can lead to unhealthy activities and situations.Good luck!

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questions · #12 26-06-2007, 08:09

heres my advice. this is working for me so i hope it will work for u. step 1. slowly limit ur masturbation to 1 time a day. then limit it to once everyother day. then once every other 2 days, etc etc. that is working for me right now, so good luck! i