My friend has an emotionally abusive Mom, how do I know this? Her Mom does the exact same stuff as mine did/does. She now has confessed that she has been having heart problems. She told me that she has blacked out because her heart sometimes doesn't let her breathe right. And they have found a lump until her arm. (She has doctors appointments the rest of the week, so that is taken care of).We never got along when we were preteen-teenagers but now that I have mellowed out (from getting married, having kids) and she has mellowed we have become good friends. I am worried about her and I want to know how I can best support her.Cancer hits really close to home, both of my Grandmothers and a really close (adult) friend have all died from it. And my Father keeps getting skin cancer (he works out in the sun a lot).I am scared for her. And I couldn't bare to loose her. I don't want to make her feel "sick" or that I am "worried" or that I look at/treat her any differently.

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