am i messed up in the head or something?

Mimi_Loves_You · #1 30-06-2007, 10:35

i'm really insecure and have low self esteem (i think those are the same things....?), i don't feel pretty but everyone says i am? And my frd's mom says i have anxiety and anxiety is the reason why she got a therapist. & i get these depressions but idk if i'm really depressed or if...i just want attention or something (unintentionally). sometimes i'll just be thinking about it, and then burst out in tears. is/has anyone gone/going through this? i'm sorry if what i wrote doesn't make sense or something.btw, i'm thinking part of it is because my mom is really into looks adn what the other people think of our family (it gets really annoying), and she keeps telling me i need to work out because i'm gaining weight. i'm 15, 5'3'' and 96ish pounds. i know i'm not FAT, but sometimes i start thinking that i do need to lose a little weight....

rhd_ef8 · #2 30-06-2007, 11:15

honestly everyone goes through these issues at least once in their life. dont dwell on it or it will ruin your life. Be confident in who you are and keep a positive attitude.

vwmanxter · #3 30-06-2007, 12:06

Yeah, I have pretty much every problem you just listed there (except the anxiety I experience is more specifically social anxiety)... I have been seeing a therapist for awhile and it has helped a lot. It is one of those things I have to stick with even when I feel good though, cause the depression thing is so up and down. Some people view seeing a therapist/psychologist as a negative thing because they can't cope, but everyone deals with their problems in their own way; so if that is what is stopping you from getting help, don't worry what other people will think. It feels good just to talk. Hope everything works out well for you

densrim · #4 30-06-2007, 12:15

you had better sit down with a good therapist & listen to him/her,you seem very mixed up & depressed,get help NOW, it will only get worse & you dont deserve to feel that way,it will realy ruin your life,I went through it & was helped & now I feel great & feel good about myself,,,GOOD LUCK, PLEASE GET HELP XXX

TXchick · #5 30-06-2007, 12:35

Welcome to puberty and being a girl.

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