feel as I do...I am dreading? going to bed as I am tired of sleeping alone. Now, here is where it gets odd. I don't want to be in a relationship-as in, I don't want to be sharing my life with someone or even having sex with them. I just want to sleep beside someone-cuddle, hold each other, just be there and then that's all. They go away in the morning and only return when it is time to go to sleep. Does anyone else feel this way? It has really become a problem for me because I can't sleep.

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I can relate,its so weird right

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I often feel that same way. Not wanting to be in a relationship, or having sex, but just to want to feel another warm body, or listen to their breathing.
Maybe it's a deep-seeded desire for security? If you figure anything out, let me know.

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I often feel that same way. Not wanting to be in a relationship, or having sex, but just to want to feel another warm body, or listen to their breathing.
Maybe it's a deep-seeded desire for security? If you figure anything out, let me know.

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have you tried holding a pillow or a large stuffed animal?

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Nope! That's not weird at all. I can relate with that feeling
of wanting to cuddle and not have sex. But I can sleep alone with no problem. I love hugs and cuddling. Sad part is you can't sleep. I know that pillows cannot take the place of another warm body, but have you tried the nursing pillow? I think it's the C shaped one? Or a body pillow? It may help to give you the feeling of being cuddled. Play a soothing CD, grab your biggest pillow and have some lavender scented sachets around to help you relax and sleep. Hope that helps!

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I totally felt that way! When I was single again I missed just havng a warm body next to me! I just wanted someone to cuddle with. To my disappointment even when I would tell a guy thats all I wanted and all they would get, they would agree, and then try to make the moves later like I had changed my mind because they were so irresistable. I would tell guys I would go hang out with that I didnt want a relationship and that I WAS NOT THIER GIRLFRIEND, and eventually they would start to call mr their girlfriend, Again like I had changed my mind because he is so sensitive and irresistable! So good luck. They have these weird pillows out there now that are shaped like a body. I wish I had had one of these. It would have saved me alot of annoyances and frustration!

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