Would the fact that my husband doesn't want to have sex with me grounds for

Dee7777 · #1 10-07-2007, 17:45

divorce? How long should I wait? My husband always says he's never in the mood, and if I leave it up to him, we could go for months without sex. Whenever we do have sex, it lasts ten minutes and I get nothing out of it. He puts in no effort, as if he just wants to get it overwith. I've tried everything to get him in the mood, and I know I'm very attractive. Most men would kill to have a wife with a sex drive like mine. It seems like he doesn't care. Can I just divorce him for that reason?

KID87 · #2 11-07-2007, 08:05

he is either cheating or gay...

>>P-Love<< · #3 11-07-2007, 08:16

of course, this situation is just wrong. you are two married adults. you might want to look deeper into the situation sounds like he might have someone on the side......

Kenny J · #4 11-07-2007, 09:35

Divorce is an extreme situation, but if you aren't happy then it is time to move on. Does he want to change? Does he care that he isn't meeting your sexual needs? Has he been checked by a doctor to ensure there is nothing wrong? I would answer these questions first before divorcing him. If you have kids, you need to consider their needs too. Best of luck!

auburnspitfire · #5 11-07-2007, 09:55

Maybe you should ask him why first. Most men don't care what they are humping so maybe he has a problem that he is embarrassed about. Talking should be your first step.

Fury writer · #6 11-07-2007, 11:25

tell him he can put it in any hole he wants.

Monsieur Rcik · #7 11-07-2007, 12:15

Sure can. As soon as you do, you and I should talk.

D G · #8 11-07-2007, 12:25

Have you talked to him yet? That would be the adult thing to do. There has to be a reason for this, guys look forward to putting it somewhere their entire lives. If he has stopped having sex with you, and enjoying it, he might be getting it from somewhere else. A cheater will "perform" his duties once in a while though just to keep your mind off him cheating. I thought maybe it might be medical, but if he still does it with you, then it sounds like its just a lack of interest.

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