my husband ( who is very wrong for doing this and has appogized) stated to me tonight that "people" were upset by the way i was acting a few days before and on my wedding day.(which was on june 2,2007) People meaning my husbands sister/matron of honor and may be others. I was told that i was bossy and rude ordering people to do things and not being nice about it. This is a falsehood, not only did i ask everyone as sweet as can be (because i have watched bridezilla) i did most of the important aarons and set up and clean up my self trying to ask as little as possible from mine and my husband's family, due to th haveing to travel three hours to be there. Any way I am just crushed to have known that my matron on honor and anyone that was a part of our special day would say that about me. Because that is the oppisite of who i am and i strongly thought that i was being the worlds most considerate bride considering how stressed i was. Should I confront her on this matter or let it go......
just for some back ground info-i didnt recieve hardly any help from my 2 brides maids even though they came and stayed in a hotel two days before the wedding. They left rehearsal dinner earily leaving me to clean up everything, i have hardly even been to a wedding let alone been in one so I was off on the timing on everything due to that,everything was caotic, because i was the bride, the wedding planner and host, the brides maids did help deorated the hall but that was about it

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i would be hurt. VERY HURT! i would confront her and ask what you did that made her so upset, since you went out of your way to be so kind and nice.

sadly, some people see taking actions and being organized as bridezilla behavior. i am sorry.

http://www.etiquettehell.com/content/eh_everyday/gimme/edhgimme2003arc.shtml

this website is FULL of people who apparently hold grudges years later. please talk it out before it gets worse.

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Let it go, you are going to be related to this woman for the rest of your life.

Maybe she has her own issues that you don't know about. Maybe she is jealous of you, because either she isn't married and wants to be or if she is married maybe her wedding wasn't as fancy as yours.

Don't let it get you all worked up, some people have thin skin and they take things the wrong way, maybe in her mind you were bossy or rude or whatever, but it doesn't matter it is water under the bridge.

Also don't keep bringing it up to your husband, at least he told you what was said, don't let it cause a rift between him and his sister. No one comes out on top when siblings start fighting.

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