I am very happily with the man of my dreams. We have a baby on the way in 6 weeks and 2x Sons between us. But during the last couple of months I have had 2x incidencies where I have found photo's of women in, lets just say a very provocative pose!!, once on his phone (girls number on there too) and once on the computer. It's very apparent that he's been chatting on here to girls aswell. What do I do? I feel very silly as I read things like this and think "mug, it's obvious!!" but I really love him and we have a lovely home and family.... help!!

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The shame about dreams is you wake up,ask what you must know about anything and be sure to get the right answers,and not allow him to fob you off with any BS.

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confont him with it. if he is the man of your dreams then surely he will talk with you about this. it is possible these are m.pictures. what i mean is if you arent feeling frisky he could be looking at these to relieve himself so to speak. i know if it was me i would rather my wife be masturb over a pic of brad pitt than lying in someone elses bed!

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dear needed advice you and him need to sit down and address this situation,before it becomes aproblem,but i suspect its probably nothing serious yet

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I'm sure he's screwing around. If not physically, then emotionally for sure. Guys are pathetic beings who need their ego constantly stroked. You, taking care of 2 (soon 3) kids, simply don't have the time to do that so he gets that ego stroking elsewhere Maybe from the girl who cuts his hair or his waitress or the girl at the dry-cleaners. Once it starts, it is hard to stop and, eventually he will cheat. You need to sit down with him and discuss this. Don't judge him for needing this type of affection. He can't help it. Just focus on fixing the problem. Needing attention can't be helped. Where he gets this attention is up to you. Ask me how I know all this...

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ahh honey.I know you love him with all your heart, but this will eventually eat away at you. everytime he has hes phone in hes hand or is on the computer you are going to be biting your nails with worry about if hes talking to these women.You need to talk to him, there must have been something that made you go looking for something. maybe you are having more arguments lately or he is not being as loving to you anymore. Women have a sixth sense when it comes to men cheating on us, we just know something aint right, soem women chose to ignore it and be walked over, and other women chose to be strong and face the man that you love with all your heart, that could maybe break your heart. Id rather be the latter of women, it may hurt like hell but eventually you can get over it and meet a man that is so in love with you, will never want to stray away.I hope it all goes ok for you and your kiddies. xxx

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i think you should sit down and have a chat with him as this is very serious and it will put your mind at rest if you know the truth wether he is or not, that's the only sensible way to go about it.GOod luck

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Y ou need to confront him, find out how far it has gone,whats his history like

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Hello not a nice situation to be in, you could ask him out right, phone the number on his phone and ask her, or do as a friend did and use a honey trap, hire a female to test him and they can take it as far as you like, just get his number, kiss him or all the way, sounds cruel but you will know for sure.

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