I got to know this particular girl few years ago. We lost contact after sometime... suddenly we found each other back through some network. She had a complicated past with her exs.. and she is very sentimental... seems like she is stuck totally in her past... we started spending time tgt and realised that we are attracted to each other.. before I can even say anything.. she patched back with her ex.. they were tgt for a few years before that... now that i wanna back out, she is reluctant to let go.. but I wonder if i can wait because she chose to work things out wif her ex.. and I don't wish to be the 3rd party.. I tot of cuttin all contacts wif her.. but I can't bring myself to do so. Should I wait or should I move on? At times I felt quite led on wif the hugs and kisses.. not to mention we sms everyday. we are more than friends, less than lovers. I can't treat her like a normal friend either. What should I do??She wants me to stay on for her.. but she can't give any promises... we always sit at the breakwaters to see the stars and planes.. reminiscing back.. it's quite sad.. but I know i gotta move on.. thanks for yr comments ppl..

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I would move on!

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ask her if you can take it slow but be more then friends tell her how you feel.

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if u reallly think ur meant to be together i think u should fight for her and show it to her then u can make life better for her then her ex...thats what my man did and it worked i am together with him and i couldnt be any more hapier then i am now

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let her go

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she is trying to date 2 guys together.. do you think is good..? sometime short term pain is better then long term pain.. let go and find a new prey.. there are a lot girls out there waiting for to woo her.. and u might get a girl who is much better she are..pls forgive me for my words

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there's no reason why you should stay when she decided to work things out with her ex because if she has no feelings left for her ex, she would have given you a chance. if she really wanted if the two of you could be 'something', she wouldn't have patched things up with her ex. she probably treats you that way because she's lonely and if you ask me.. i think she's just being selfish. it's clear that she just needs you to entertain her. i know moving on is hard and it's hard for you to avoid this because your emotions are in control (since there were hugs and kisses involved) but you have to be careful if you choose to stay, you're only going to hurt yourself because if she really wanted to be with you, she would have given a go.

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then...just let it be!i mean you can treat her alittle more than normal friend,but not too much. but lover?no way. just treat her like a lover when she's really finish with her ex.ur love should be respect.if she's serious with you,and want to be your lover,then she gotta end up with her ex right away and tell you that she's ready.i know it's hard to moving on right now,but that wont hurt anymore,someday.just listen to your heart,it knows what to do.I think you shouldnt wait for this girl,but not move on so quickly,i mean,you can give her sometimes,for her to make her decision.if it's been too long but she still not make her finnal decision,move on right away.good luck,friend.

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