...4th weekend in a row? This may sound incredibly mean, I don't know. I am asking because I am going crazy with this issue. Basically my boyfriend and I are going through a long distance relationship. 2 weeks prior to him moving, his family dumped off his 12yo brother without asking. They claimed they were going to pick him up in 4 days. Turns out they changed their mind and told my boyfriend "bring him home when you come home next"So the last 2 weeks before he moved, his brother was there 24/7. My boyfriend has 1 week to be alone in his new apartment. I come for 2 days and return home because his family is dropping off his brother AGAIN. They say it is for 1 week. Now they told him, "You can stay for another week, we'll get you later." My boyfriend and I made plans for my birthday on Friday. His family hates me so there's no talking to them. His brother said he'd stay home if it meant me missing out on birthday plans.I told him ok at first, but now I'm thinking, Should I just tell him .Tell him to maybe staying isn't such a good idea anymore since we did have plans. The whole issue is also even if I came to spent that time with him and my bf, I'd have to leave before his family got there cause they hate me and think i'm outt athe picture. My bf is 22 and hasn't told them yet that I'm not. And having my bf tell them in time for my birthday this coming Friday is not an option. So maybe I should just let the bro know that we had plans and it's not gonna work out? It sounds mean but this will be the 4th full week he's been at my boyfriend's place because his Mom keeps telling him to stay there. I don't think it's fair to my bf either to have to take care of him.Biggest problem is he's acting like he doesn't care that I can't be there. He'll tell me he does and he wants me there bad, but the moment his parents decide on something he just goes with it and plays it off like he doesn't want to be with me, but I think he just doesn't want to admit it's cause of his family cause I KNow it's an issue and I give him a hard time fori t.

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You sound jealous dear. Try to give the kid a chance. If his parents are always ditching him then he really does need someone to look out for him and spend some time with him.Maybe for your birthday you guys could do something to include him. If you were going to go out for dinner, maybe go earlier, to some place with a nice patio...you guys can have a drink and he can have a Shirley Temple or something cool. He'll feel included and grown up and he'll probably love you for it. Later, you can two can do something alone for a few hours. Seriously, the kid's 12, you guys don't have to spend every second with him.Try and be his adult friend, you never know, you might enjoy it. And besides, it won't be summer forever, eventually he'll have to go back to school.

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