Okey, I need REAL advise right now, i am having a friend crisis. On the last day of school, i was sitting next to this guy that my friend likes. I have never had a F before, so I have no idea if someone is flirting with me, well he was. I was just laughing and chatting with him, beucase he was really funny. But little did i know my bff probably thought that i was backstabbing her, becuase she had just told me she liked him until may 18th(her b-day party).Well, any way, after that i kept calling her about 2 times a day. Each time i called, she would hang up. the only thing i ever heard was an occational"stop calling me", and then she hung up. I would time it so that i could say one word each time i called,lol.every time she hung up on me, i got this feeling in the pit of my gut, that made me feel bad, and like i was my fault. but it wasn't. i asked my mom and she said "let it go", but it is so hard, becuase she is the first friend i ever made at my new school...............and we have been friends for 3 years now. It has been about 3 weeks sence i last called her, and our longest fight lasted 2 weeks, but this is the worst time to have a fight, beucase it's summer breack and I'm going into jr.high i am scared to loose my BFF, and the sad thing is, the weekend before that, i took her the the lake of the ozarks, and we talked about our future, we said we would live in a villa, i have one side she has the other, and i am about to cry right now litterally, what should i do!please help me!i dont like him i never met him before he was just funny, that's all.

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call her tell her you were just talking to him and didnt mean to flirt or even know he was flirting with you tell her she is your best friend and you dont want to lose her over some guy then maybe send her something like a friendship teddybear etc something to show you care

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Sorry that she is mad at you. You should call her and apologize and tell her that you weren't backstabbing her and that you didn't know that she liked him. If you can't get a hold of her maybe send her an email or a text message..or write her a letter in a special card and send it to her and then just wait for her to come back to you. You will find that throughout your teen years you will have lots of fights with your best friends and if they are true friends they will get over it and come back to you and continue being your best friend. Good luck.

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you need to settle down, by freaking out at the possibiliy of losing youf bff you are only putting yourself in a place to make things worst. give it some more time and then perhaps trying calling or emailing her. if she hangs up on you or doesn't respond then there nothing you can do. if she refuses to talk with you it's not possible to fix things. i know it's hard losing a friend, i just lost one myself. but don't dwell on it too much and try to work on making yourself happy and not sad.

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hey ok, well the first thing is, he was flirting with you, so were you flirting back sub constically? she obviously really liked him and a little advice firends dont go for their friends crushes.she is soo pissed of with you and it is going to be hard ofr her ot trust you again so you have to make it up to her, so i take it this guy likes oyu and you can talk to him really openly, so go talk to him and say you really think hes an awsome guy and would love ot be his friend once he says sure then say the only reason i want to be friends is beacuse my best friend has a really major crush on you... and know that ive found out how great and suitible you guys would be toghether... ask if he could give it a go... if he is a gr8 guy hell sya for sure, but if he trys the whole thing of but i love you then tell him the most your going to offer him is friendship, but only if he talks to her, then send your friend an e-mail explaing how much you didnt know and then tell her what you disccused with him so she will know you werent talking bout her, then put a friendship quote and a pic of you two and say how althoug it might be breaking her heart she might never be with him,,, say its breaking your heart that i guy could breack a friendship, sya youve spent sleepless nights thinking bout it and say your sorry from the bottom of your heart nad if she cant accept that, then you cant do anything else but to avoid the guy... adn when he does go for her she will feel really bad...

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Try sending her an e-mail....Explaining everything.....Chances r she really-really likes that dude a ton so she is like totally sad about him flirten with you.

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