Second date question?

Ethan · #1 23-06-2007, 07:58

I am now in the dating scene again after being in a 10 year marriage and sort of forget how to date (court) someone again. I know it sounds silly, but it's true. What is the proper for a second date (as far as flowers/gifts) We've already decided we are "seeing" each other. She and I both have talked about the fact that we are "perfect" for each other... so I want to do this right... Should I bring a flower or flowers? Gift?For our second date we will go to dinner and a movie.We're both in our 30s if that makes a difference as far as etiquette is concerned?Also, is holding hands proper on a second date? I seriously forget LOL I didn't think I would either....Thanks in advance.And just in case this is read the wrong way, or I didn't say it well-- I am not married anymore, we are divorced. This is a new girl.

groverraj · #2 23-06-2007, 08:05

Flowers is fine.. so it a bottle of wine!Holding hands... at the age of 30??? U should be on second or third base on your second date!

MuseumGirl48 · #3 23-06-2007, 08:22

Go with your gut on the flowers. Take it slow but steady, be your best but true self and most importantly Have FUNBeing kind, polite is alway in vogue. The particulars of what you do is up to you.What will be will be.

cormucus · #4 23-06-2007, 08:25

boy are you rusty or what? well try this first date flowers, women love flowers. Second date dinner and flowers, holding hands is fine from the first date (worked for me) don't push the issue taking a walk is good drive out some where this all depends on what your date likes good luck

mimiluvslao · #5 23-06-2007, 08:37

depending what kind of girl she is, nothing at all would be fine. but if you want to earn brownie points, then yes, a flower would be nice! if she likes pretty things and needs a lot, then buy flowers, but if she is down to earth, just one will do. also, holding hands is timeless. it doesn't really matter when you do it, as long as you both feel comfortable. why don't you try touching her hand, or try holding it. if she hold your hand back, then great! if she pulls away, just realize that she's not ready and that you should wait a little while longer. and, think about ending the date with a kiss on the cheek. depending on how close you two are, and how the date goes.best of luck to you!

ldgirlz11 · #6 23-06-2007, 08:50

Bring her a pink rose, hold her hand or put your arm around her shoulder when you're walking. Touch her hair. Take it slow, there is no rush. Just be yourself. Complement her. If and when you want to kiss her, ask her if it's ok first, don't just move in on her. Good luck and thanks for asking. Thats more than I can say for most men. You sound like a nice guy!

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