Guys, please help me out with this one: I've been in a relationship for quite some time now and though I'm quite attrative with certain body parts standing out in the crowd, my partner never initiates sex with me, often rejects me, but I lately found out he spends several days a week in front of the computer watching porn! Now, I know for a fact, that I'm quite exciting in bed and very open minded, so how come he prefers the fake computer porn to the real thing????????????
It's tearing me apart and my confidence is taking a dive. I feel compelled to sleep with someone else just to feel worthwhile again. And I'm NOT short of offers! He used to deny he was even watching it until I caught him out. He just gets angry if I confront him. Someone, please help me out with this one. I still love this man immensely. We're both of mature age, if that makes any difference....

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You need to explain to him that your needs are not being met. If he can't meet your needs then you need to get rid of him and move on.

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Many people watch it because they enjoy it and it's arousing to them aka entertaining. Of course, all guys watch porn unless they're gay. If he becomes addicted then it's a real problem. But then again, you can learn a lot of things from porn. Most guys learn how to show intimacy from porn. It's somewhat beneficial to them. You shouldn't degrade yourself. And if you truly love him, why would you want to go sleep with someone else? Watching porn doesn't mean he's sleeping with someone else or cheating. Maybe you could enjoy watching it together to get the mood on. But if he's too addicted, I think the relationship will go downhill. Anyways, I wish you luck. Have a talk with him. Make sure you know what you're doing before you make a mistake! =) Best wishes.

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I see this every single day at work. He is most likely addicted to it. Porn addiction is a real thing and tears apart MANY marriages. He prefers porn because he is addicted to it, just like a drug, and studies have shown it literally warps the mind and any normal perception of sexuality he may have had. So instead of intimacy with a real live woman who loves him, he gets his "fix" from a computer screen.

If you want your relationship to survive, he needs to get some counseling about this. Chances are if he has been denying it, then getting angry when you oppose to it, it's much more serious than just popping in a porn DVD every now and again or visiting a website once and awhile. Encourage him to get help.

Good luck.

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