parent/children relationships???

xxsyn69xx · #1 25-06-2007, 08:56

im a 22 year old thats lived out of my parents house since i was 17. wheni lived at home i was the typical teen. i experiemented with pot and booze. battled depression. finding my friends and even sexuality. but the way i went about things my parents didnt agree with to the point they sent me away alot. to grouphomes and mental hospitals. now my 2 younger sisters, ages 15 and 17 are doin alot of the same things i am. and my parents blame it on me. they wont let me see or talk to my sisters because im such a 'bad infulence' on them...this is hard for me to deal wtih. my sisters are my world. im so close to them but its so hard when my parents keep them away. i cant talk to my parents. they dont listen to anyhting i have to say bc no matter what it is im always wrong and my oppinions and feelings dont matter to them...what can i do? i dont want to not be able to be with my sisters but at the same time im tired of always being the black sheep and the bad person...what do i do???????

dacr_4ever · #2 25-06-2007, 09:05

Change yourself and be a good influence on your sisters. Try proving to your parents that you are a good older sister. You cannot blame them for wanting to keep your sisters away. You made bad decisions and they want to make sure that it doesn't happen to any of their other children.

az_mommma · #3 25-06-2007, 09:16

You have done things that have worried them to the point that they want to protect your sisters from you. What can you do.... you need to work on you and show them that you have learned from your mistakes because yes, the pot, the booze, the sex were all mistakes. These are not normal things kids do.... they are stupid things kids choose to do.If they do not see a change in you and your attitude then they are never going to believe you learned anything and are safe to be around your sisters.

buxtonite · #4 25-06-2007, 09:35

seems to me that your not the problem .... your parents are !!!, they are looking for someone to blame instead of looking at what's wrong at home, you have been out of their house for to long to be your fault...ok so just stand up to them and tell them to look at them selves before they start accusing you and saying its your fault .and don't worry your sisters will always be your sisters and they know you love them and that its not your fault

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