Need advise. Serious answers only please.?

latina04 · #1 26-06-2007, 12:45

Okay I am 24 years old and my husband is 32 years old. What do I do if all he wants to do is party and drink on weekends or whenever he wants just takes off and don't come back till next morning all drunk. I have a 3 year old. What can I do? What is he thinking?

adam91795 · #2 26-06-2007, 12:55

just leave him!!

J_humor · #3 26-06-2007, 14:06

Let me recommend the book entitled "Pleasers" by Dr. Kevin Leman. I have a copy I am reading. Please read it. Let me say this: even in marriage, if you act as if you were french hamburger, I will eat you.You have to face this matter squarely, but you have to be prepared. So, again, I recommend the above-mentioned book to you. If you are not sure where to get it, go to the website www.crossings.comLook ahead with positive confidence.

Blu-Mu · #4 26-06-2007, 14:16

It sounds like he is trying to recapture his youth. The only way you are going to find out what he is thinking is to ask him.You need to sit him down and talk to him. Ask him why he needs to go out partying till all hours and where his commitment to your marriage / family is. There must be an underlying reason to it. Has there been a sudden life change or change in circumstances, or was he a party animal when you first met and has never grown out of it?You also need to tell him how his partying / drinking is making you feel. Could you arrange get away; Spend a weekend together; Go for a picnic in the park or a long drive.If you don't address these issues soon then they will build up and wreck your marriage. You could try going to marriage guidance if things are getting out of hand.Good Luck.

gim320 · #5 26-06-2007, 14:25

so serious advise talk to him about that like curiosity not to judge and laugh with himshare him his funn then you will know what he thinking and try to stop him one by onegood luck

rosamia · #6 26-06-2007, 14:35

its better to sit with him and talk it over.Better communication always solve the problem. Bad or good

stormthescot · #7 26-06-2007, 14:45

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