I have known my wife since we were 13, and we just got married about a month ago. We are now 21, and have a 2 year old daughter. Ever since she was born, it has been a steady decline, and now is nothing at all. She says she has no desire to do it anymore. I don't want to leave my wife because I love her so much, but I also don't want to resort to masturbation for the rest of my life? I don't really know there to look to find counseling either, or cheap counseling at that. Money is an issue. What do I do? I am really getting the cold shoulder.

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Spice it up a little!!! She may be bored of the same sex moves....

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dame sorry ta tell ya jack but uhhhhh shes cheatin on ya bob

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it could be her hormones or she is in some kind of depression. don't give up on her if you love her that much!!!!!! she needs to see a doctor obgyn. good luck

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if she starts igonring you then talk about the situation if she still doesnt change dump her ass. because she does not derssve you because it sounds like u r a one time only deal wats done is done and shes ready to move along.

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start thumping your dummie for its gonna be a long dry spell

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I think that having a baby puts the love making on hold for a while, men dont understand what its like for women, before and after the baby is born a womans hormones are all over the place.Maybe if she feels loved and wanted with no pressure to have sex, maybe even give her a massage without sex in return, its quite unusual for a man to do something intimate for his woman and not want sex in return. ((no offence)) i dont think you fully relax when you have a baby always waiting for a movment or for her to wake up, if she interupts then tell your wife to stay put and you will sort the baby out then go back to your wife and simply carry on from where you left off.Take the load off her and do a few intimate things for her and walk away once she is happy and feeling great, she may then want to please you as you are pleasing her, if that dont work its back to the drawing board but give it a go.x

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After my1st child I lost my desire I was tired &overwhemled about everything money, being a good mom &wife. I think it's normal. Talk to her about her fears and listen .You can ''fix" them but girls needed to talk. Be kind and loving without the bed in mind and you will be glad you did.

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Been there done that. Hang in there the sex will get better. Right now she's tired running around behind your two year old daughter not to mentioned picking up things after her mess and yours, feeding her, bathing her, laundry, grocery, job/work, etc, etc and on top of that cooking for you and her. Take over you daughter sometime, take over the house chores, give your wife a break, tell her how much you love her, tell her go shopping and pamper herself, give her the break of her life. Spoil her without mentioning of sex, it will come naturally. Perhaps before you two go to bed, give your wife a massage on her calves, legs, and work your way up her back. You two are still too young, sex will get better. Your wife will soon turn the table around, she will be asking for another round and you'll be hearing yourself telling her "who do you think I am, Superman?"Sincerely yours,Married man for 18 years,Before that, lived in for 5 years = 23yrs.(and still doin' it like 23yrs ago!)

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