my b/f and I are expecting we have been together 5 years is it important to get...

april p · #1 02-07-2007, 14:35

...married now?

M. C · #2 02-07-2007, 14:46

Too late the kid is already a bastard.....good job.

Aussie1 · #3 02-07-2007, 15:45

YES. It is morally wrong to have a child if you arent married.

assertive1 · #4 02-07-2007, 16:16

No I don't think so. I want a bb with my boyfriend and we don't plan on getting married. We've been together almost 5 years...Why mess up a good thing with a piece of paper that says were married....We love each other and that is all that matters. Do what is in your heart!

QueenBoudica · #5 02-07-2007, 17:15

You should have married before deciding to bring a baby into the world. Why do people have this a**backwards? Marriage first...babies second...P.S. If you havent married in five years, why rush into it now?

bri-rae · #6 02-07-2007, 20:26

a love child ...koolness.if you want a nice big wedding, wait until the baby is born.

dedeskinner · #7 02-07-2007, 21:05

The damage is already done but your bf might want to find out what his rights are. If you ain't married he may not have any rights concerning his kid. Even if it wears his name. That's the problem my nephew had . I don't understand why if you love someone enough to live together why not just go ahead and get married?

shayne w · #8 02-07-2007, 22:35

Screw the person below me. You have to decide for yourself whats right for you and the child. Don't rush into anything if you're unsure. It'll cause more trouble in the long run. Good luck!!!

amaybride · #9 02-07-2007, 23:06

Just because you are expecting is NO reason to get marry.

CleverGal · #10 02-07-2007, 23:18

If you are both love each other, it makes sense to solidify your family by making a commitment to each other. Too many people have a negative attitude towards marriage these days. However, if you are having a child together, that child deserves a stable home, with a mother and father who share a commitment to each other and to the family they have created. Marriage now would be the ultimate celebration of your relationship together and the child you are expecting. Go for it!

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