ok here it goes.im in my early 30s,work a low paying job and a single parent of teenage boys.my family isnt bad for back stabbing thieves.my girlfriend,although a bit country,does almost anything i want or ask(not sexualy).her kids r terrible though,the girl lies alot and bad mouths her mom to her face all the time,acusses me of hitting her and i have yet to lay one finger on her.the boy is a butt kisser and destroys all his toys and anything else he touches,the other child wets herself every night no matter what,wont eat anything unless its a hotdog or something like that.my ex pays little or nothing on child support nad her ex pays crap as well,and both of them love to get crap started all the time between us and the kids,my family doesnt like her,hers hates me.i cant hardly pay my bills let alone buy anything for the house or the kids.if you do resond to this,enough with the whole "did u talk to them "crap,these people arent the lets talk type.any helpfull hints

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First why can't you explain yourself without writing in proper English? You sound like you need to reevaluate your life..seriously, your skill, values and what you want out of life.

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First off, you need to take some classes (you could probably get a lot of state grants and stuff for being a single parent) to better yourself and get a better paying job. Perhaps right now you don't need a girlfriend in your life with that much baggage. Perhaps you need to focus on you and your kids first. Also, whoever the backstabbing thieves are (you didn't say) forget about them.

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Yeah, stop whining, stand up and change your life. What are you doing to improve your job situation. Money cannot buy love but it sure can buy a lot of everything else. You need to get into position where you are no longer so dependent upon the whims and actions of others, This will go a long way to improving your self esteem which you badly need. It will be hard but if you want it, you will be able to do it, Ask God to help you and you will reach your goal, but you must have one to reach it. Take back your life and get control. It will take time? Yeah it will but so what? where are you going to be in a year if you don't try something to help yourself?

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Sounds like an excellent country song. Write the words and get Chesney to record it and you will have all the money in the world.Seriously, there is no advice for the do do you are in. Here is what I would do:1) Get a good job with some potential upside2) Drop the girl friend3) Get a new girl friend without baggage4) Hire a lawyer to collect from you ex by garnishing her wages or bank accounts, they will take 33% of what you collect and that sounds good from your story.5) Join a gym and work out four times a week for an hourLife will be good

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Try to adopt a more positive attitude. Think of the good things in your life. You get to be with your kids. You are with a woman you (hopefully) love. Negativity attracts negativity, so just put a positive spin on things. I wasn't exactly sure what you wanted helpful hints about, but that's just my general life philosophy. Try to do better for yourself. You can't lament a situation you got yourself into.

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Sadness, Why don't you take your ex to court and try to get more child support on your kids?If the girl that you are with now doesn't make her kids mind and lets her kids talk to her like crap,then HEY she needs to get ahold of them and whoop their @sses! If you love your girlfriend(the person that you are with now),then tell her to get ahold of her kids and get respect in them now,or they are going to end up running ALL over her and any other adult!! Have you and your girlfriend even sit down to talk about her kids and they way that they do?If not,then you and her need to have a talk and tell her what you think about her kids. Good luck

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