I've been thinking about my x boyfriend the last week or so.. We were together a year and tried for a child, but it didn't happen. Well we had a great relationship. Never argued. Well I cheated on him (don't talk sh!t cause you're not perfect) well the only guy I cheated on him with ended up being together a long time and our relationship is rocky. But I keep thinking about my ex bf a lot lately and I haven't thought about him in 2 years or so. So my question is why? I dream about him and think about him and where I'd be if I would be with him. He was a nice person, only thing was that his ex would call him and she was a *****. But I wanted to be fair and met her, but she was still a *****.

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Its guilt thats driving you.

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Butterfly, the grass always looks greener on the other side. I guess you got screwed and learned from your mistakes. I am sure your ex boyfriend has moved on in the meantime. Let it go.

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Sounds like you still have feelings for him. I think people supress their emotions and feeling because it makes things easier at first. But eventually it all comes rushing back. When something triggers it... like seeing them, coming across pictures, hearing a song, memories, anything that reminds you of them. I think you will have to make a decision whether or not to try and contact him. It won't be an easy one... and could get even harder if he is not interested. I would recommend maybe contacting him casually and reminscing about ole times. Saying you just contacted him because you wanted to see how everything is with him. That will give you a chance to feel him out and see if he has thought about you too or if he has moved on. I wish you the best of luck.

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You are thinking about him because your current relationship isn't going well...and you know you are the one who ruined the relationship with your ex. You are remembering him as perfect...although he likely wasn't. But you hurt him...and chances are he won't be interested. It's not easy to go backwards in relationships...too much baggage. It may be time to move on to someone new.

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Well...the decision to split with him might have been on impulse. You may be feeling now how great the relationship was. However, if you are in a relationship now and he is in another, you got to be sensitive to his needs at the current moment. he may probably be having a nice time and relationship, with his current partner. Please ensure that his relationship is not endangered by your overtures!

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A question in return...for my answer...did you cheat on him because of his "EX"... "AND" was he still seeing her at the time of your relationship with him(exbf) ? My answer...without knowing these things... it's difficult to say the least, however...Firstly let me say "I AGREE !!!" I'm not bashing, hating or any other form of badmouthing...and I too, AM NOT PERFECT...Personally I don't think that there's nothing wrong with thinking about something good from your past..."BUT"...unless there's a chance of reconciling your past difference's, should that be what you truly want (to be with your exbf) and if "HE'S" willing and able to forgive and forget... than go for it...if he doesn't want to RESTART... perhaps it's time to move on about him and fix the problem's your having with your current relationship, that by the way ...is a constant reminder to you (subconsciously) about you know who?(exbf). remember...you left you know who (exbf) for who's still there... anytime...love yourself first ..."DOC"

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