we will have to travel....? ...about 2 hours to attend. I've known the groom for about 15 years and his mother is one of my dearest friends. We've been really looking forward to this wedding. Now, my husband and I are separated. We live in the same house, but sleep in different rooms. Because the wedding is at night and a distance from us, we got a hotel room which we booked while we were still together and long before I filed for divorce. As the wedding approaches, I am dreading the long car ride alone with him and the thought of being in the same hotel room with him is making me ill. I called the hotel and there are no more rooms available for that night. He doesn't want the divorce and is constantly following me around like a lost puppy. Ever since I told him I filed, he's been begging me to get back together. I want nothing to do with him and can't stand the thought of being alone in the hotel with him. What should I do?

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I understand not wanting to be alone in the same hotel room with him, but what's the difference if you are still living in the same house. You need to move out, all you are doing by staying is giving him false hope. You should also probably attend the wedding alone.

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Either don't go to the wedding or find a hotel room of your own with a different hotel. Seriously... this will NOT be fun if you get stuck in that hotel room with him.

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Call your friend and explain the situation. Maybe they can find you a place to stay with friends or relatives. Drive there by yourself and work on your living arrangements. If you have filed for divorce one of you needs to leave the house or he will never get it.

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ask the grooms mother to stay wit her....she is a close frind.

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Maybe you can drive separately (rent a car)? Is there another hotel in the area? If not, maybe you can speak with the mother of the groom, explain your situation and see if she can offer some other accomodations for you. I'm sure she's very busy with the wedding and all but if she is one of your dearest friends it seems like you could at least ask.Good luck.

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Go if you want a chance to pad things up. But if you know deep down, you 100%, positively know that you do not want to be with him then don't go. If you don't want to be together you need to leave the house that you are in ASAP. You guys should not be living in the same house PERIOD. Good luck with this........

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You are not separated if you are living in the same house. You are sending him mixed messages. You say you want a divorce but your actions don't support your words. Make up your mind and stick to your decision. If you can still live in the same house, you can face one night in a hotel room for someone who is supposedly such a dear friend.

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I wouldn't go. That or convince him to stay home and you go by yourself.

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Don't change your plan, he knows that his getting to you so he will keep on being such a goody person. Maybe he thinks that the trip will give you a change of heart,but take this trip and the hotel room,while your with him in the car and his driving keep yourself busy by reading magazine or take an ipod with you so it will help you not to listen to him. And when the two of you are in the hotel,do what you do but make sure that you are wearing a pant so just in case he thinks of touching you. This time show him who's in control and by doing this he will learn that nothing is there anymore. Stick with your gun girl.....

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