I have a best friend and i like her?

thatonedude · #1 26-06-2007, 11:25

she is totally my best friend! but i like her and i don't know if she likes me! but it's not like eithor of us really date so it hasn't been out in the open or anything, what should i do/say, oh and i think she might like this other guy it might just be a rumor.but i don't want to make our friendship awkward if she doesn't like me. and we already do a LOT together but as friends

szweets · #2 26-06-2007, 11:55

hmm. go direct. ask her who she likes. if she tells you and then casually ask if she knows who you like. or wait for her to ask you who you like. and then spill. be so chill about it all shell be like oh cool he likes me but hes not going to freak. girls like guys who can be brave. be the bigger gender, boi! LOL. hope this helps.

firechap20 · #3 26-06-2007, 12:05

problems happen with communication breakdowntalk to her

JoeM. · #4 26-06-2007, 12:15

ask her out before someone else does

lindsay · #5 26-06-2007, 13:45

u should just ask her outi asked my frend 2 be my boyfrend, and he sed yesi think u should try, and if she says no, still be her frend. dont try to ruin ur frendship

Britt · #6 26-06-2007, 13:57

be honest and come out and tell her exactly what and how you feel... truth is 90% of the time a relationsip in which the partners were best friends first, before having a romantic relationship, last a long time... sometimes a lifetime.good luck!!

alexaaron6 · #7 26-06-2007, 14:06

This is simple, explain to her that you like her alot but dont want to lose her as a friend, could you take things slow and see where they lead maybe a date? I'm sure that she will atleast be willing to sit and have a meal with you and it sounds to me like your really into her. Heres to hopenNInja

Biz 8 · #8 26-06-2007, 14:16

You might want to ask her how she feels about you, but try not to make it weird. If she really is your best friend, then it won't be awkward, whatever the answer she gives you. But just to let you know, a lot of friendships get ruined once you start dating, but that's how all relationships start....so best of luck!Just ask her how she feels about you, just as a friend or a more? and if she's willing to explore more?

ayasha b · #9 26-06-2007, 14:25

thats a tough one u wouldnt want to go out and then break up it might effect ur relashionship but u never know what might come out of it so i say give it try and good luck !!!!!

somerandombee · #10 26-06-2007, 14:55

that is always a REALLY hard place to be. mayb start hinting that you like her and see how she reacts.

IeNj · #11 26-06-2007, 15:05

Ask yourself if a relationship is worth breaking up a good friendship. And then ask yourself why you like her. If this is the person you're meant to be with then go for it. My sister married her best friend, and not saying that's where this is going. Just think about what you want and find out what she wants. Drinking nights are good to find this out, but not drunk nights. (Stay away from drunk talks, that only means trouble.)

Patsy · #12 26-06-2007, 15:55

Tell her the way you feel. If you have been hanging out it's a good sign that she likes to be around you. Even if she does have a boy friend tell her that you like her. She may change her mind on this other guy. IF it's just a rumor take her to a fancy restauraunt within your budget. Give her a rose and tell her that you would like to date her. Hope you get to know this girl better and become closer to her!

kippy · #13 26-06-2007, 16:17

well ask her about the guy and see if its a rumor! DON'T FLIRT!!!!! ok then if she does ur on ur own! but if she doesn't then just like talk to her and stuff then wen the times right ask her if she likes you!! good luck! kipp

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