how would you feel if your boyfriend doesn't introduce you his family?

crazy_kingkong · #1 25-06-2007, 19:00

in our country, it is a big deal to introduce your girl/boy to your family. what will you do and how will you feel if your boy neglects to do that???

i love lucy · #2 25-06-2007, 19:15

like im not that important to him

tiggyman41 · #3 25-06-2007, 19:25

Well, in this country, that usually means he's cheating on you! Dump him and move on.

honeyswife · #4 25-06-2007, 19:45

That he is not very serious about you and I wouldn't waste anymore time on him.

gfour2austin · #5 25-06-2007, 20:05

I would feel like im not important enough. That is rude.

AKray-47 · #6 25-06-2007, 20:16

i would feel pretty embarassed but not really. he will introduce u to them when the time is right.

Pretty in Pink · #7 25-06-2007, 20:25

Well, either he's ashamed of you, or he's ashamed of them.

maya · #8 26-06-2007, 07:03

maybe he's not serious about you, & just pasting his time

K77 · #9 26-06-2007, 08:09

I personally dont bring anyone home unless its serious. Im 29 and have yet to bring someone home. The day I do bring someone home to spend the holidays or hang is because i believe he could be the one.PS: I have been in realtionships in the past where i was in love w/ the person and thought it may be something serious but like I said, im not bringing anyone home unless i believe that person is the "one".

wurm_15136 · #10 26-06-2007, 08:25

if its a big deal in your country to be introduced to the family and he isnt doing it, then i would say there is a problem. How long have you two been dating? if its hasnt been for long, maybe thats why. If you all been dating for a while, then maybe somethings up. I would ask him, maybe he dosnt like his family and dont want you to meet them in fear of you not liking them.

mekaylahall · #11 26-06-2007, 08:36

i'de be upset and feel rejected, and like i wasn't important. I would feel like i didn't mean anything to him. You should slap him.

Jared R · #12 26-06-2007, 08:45

well yeah...it doesn't feel good....i mean it's like being rejected.....or not being good enough...which is never good...

akbar · #13 26-06-2007, 09:35

who cares about the other family, the business is between boy and girl, nobody else... or what ? are you from India ?

Kelly Smelly · #14 26-06-2007, 09:46

Guys are so dumb now-a-days! Just ask him directly why he won't introduce you to his parents, and make him feel bad. Then maybe you'll get flowers because he'll realize he's a jerk.