how do i explain how he cant see his dad?

pinklillic · #1 26-06-2007, 11:45

my wee bys dad left at chirstmas and moved in with someone 10 days later since then he has let my son down all the time turning up two hours late or may be not even turning up atol, when he does take him its only for an hour.any way sat night i was in the pub my ex and his girlfriend came in i just stayed out their way but at the end of the night she came over and hit me the bouncers were very fast and flung her out before she could hurt me to much.then to add insult he walked over and slapped me because she had been flung outi feelthese people could do more harm to my son than good but my son addores his dadi never reported it all she managed to do was pull my hair and scratch me before the bouncers grabbed heri live very close to my family who are a great support to me and my son he would be lost with out his gran and grandad

prince_henry · #2 26-06-2007, 12:15

two issues here, you need to get his father to agree meeting terms, and you need to report them both for assault.don't ever let anyone get away with hitting you, unless deep down you know you got what you deserved

l33nix · #3 26-06-2007, 12:35

sigh,you need to find someone to proxy for his fatherhis granpa maybe, your brother.this is a very story.I have stuck it out for years with my abusive wife my self coz I cannot bear to see my kids cry and miss mewishing the best

Rissiepit · #4 26-06-2007, 12:45

I know exactly how you feel. I have a 3 year old daughter and her father pays maintenance wich means he is alowed visitation rights. But he drinks alot and uses drugs. He doesn't make a mence to come see his daughter out of his own and she is very confused. I'd say go to court and get full custody of your son. Let him see his father under supervision. Nowadays fathers got too many rights, it's not that easy getting rid of them. Good luck.

paul m · #5 26-06-2007, 12:55

Tell your son that you love him and that you feel it's in his best intresrest not to see his dad and when he's older he can make the descision as to whetheer or not he wants to see him.-stay strong

vickymum · #6 26-06-2007, 14:45

I really feel for you. I have a useless ex just like you, who won't even see his son. I think the best thing is if you could get him to do supervised visits to his son only (see a solicitor, remember you may qualify for legal aid), then if he's late or he doesn't show up he will have to deal with the consequences. As for what happened in the pub, i'm horrified! You're well within your rights to report that to the police as assault. You shouldn't ever have to deal with that. Good luck and lots of love xx

sprookey · #7 26-06-2007, 15:05

i think you are right in keeping your son away from your ex, you can explain that daddy has to work long hours and may not be able to see him , or you can organised supervised visits with a social worker , either way make sure your boy is not alone with him ,

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