My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost one year. I don't feel the same about him. I mean, he yells at me a lot and i'm usually really understanding, but i know i don't deserve that. There's other guys that like me and are interested, but i'm not sure how to break things off with my current boyfriend. What should i do ?My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost one year. I don't feel the same about him. I mean, he yells at me a lot and i'm usually really understanding, but i know i don't deserve that. There's other guys that like me and are interested, but i'm not sure how to break things off with my current boyfriend. What should i do ? I've tried to break it off before, but he just started yelling even more. He hung up on me for the first time recently. It was awkward. Maybe i should just cut off all connection with him for a few days and see if that helps. But everyone knows that i don't deserve it. And i like the other guys too. I just can't be in a relationship with someone who yells at me and someone i never see.The reason i was understanding was because he told me he had a bad day at work and that's why he was grouchy. Now i know, it's just because he thinks he can walk all over me. I don't live with him, i never see him. Maybe once a month, and we live less than 5 minutes away. Isn't that sad ?

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Just tell him what you said here. Tell him you dont deserve his abuse and you're gone

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do u still want to make things work with him? have you brought up to him that the yelling is not acceptable and it needs to stop. Do you think if he would stop you would still want to be with him and your opinion would change? I think you should talk to him before you make any major desicions

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Just explain to him that you don't think it's working. Chances are, he'll shout at you, but you shouldn't stay with him just for the sake of it. You deserve to be treated much better than that, so get rid of him before you change your mind. Hope this helps!

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If you and your boyfriend can't seem to work things out, then you should end your relationship with him. He isn't worth wasting your time over. I think you should give one of the other guys who like you a chance. See what happens. Things will probably work out for the best. You need a relationship that makes you happy.

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Well first of all, Don't make the same mistake I did! I put up with that for almost 3 years!! No one deserves to be yelled at constantly, to be treated like you are nothing, made to feel like it's ok that all of this is going on. Its not normal and it will bring you down if you dont act fast. Trust me! I've been there. You can't be afraid to be happy, and if being with him is making you unhappy then you should something about it and quick! Tell him how you feel, tell him you dont deserve it, tell him other people are interested and you aren't scared to see who else is out there and what they can offer.

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Just be honest with him and tell him how you feel. If he is yelling at you and IF you fear that he may get violent with you might want to do it in public place or with someone there to keep everything under control. The main thing is to be sure that you don't feel the same way about him. Break off all contact with. Don't try to "be friends" with him, it won't work, trust me. Just be honest and tell him how you feel. Tell him you don't feel the same that you did about him a year ago, and you feel that you two have grown apart over that last (insert time frame here). I have been there. it ****s saying good bye. You are comfortable with him. But you need to be happy.Hope i helped.

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the first thing is too try n talk too him,if that doesnt work im afraid its time too move on,you deserve better xxx

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Well, this advice is coming a woman who has been abused in past relationships, and marriage. Break it off, tell him that you dont like the way he treats you and be done with him for good before you obtain any further emotional attachments to him, the longer you wait the harder it usually gets to cut ties. If he is acting in this way so early in the relationship I can guarantee you it will get worse, and thinking into the future if you ever married this guy, his issues with anger may turn into more than just yelling at you, and no one wants to live with that. Even if his anger does not escalate into physical violence, who wants to spend their life with someone yelling at them all the time? Not me.. and I know you dont either. No matter how badly we want to we cant change a mans behavior, I have had to learn that the hard way. I really hope that I have helped! Good Luck!

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