It started when I found a picture of him that he sent to a women at his job . I questioned him he got very angry and told me that there were pictures of evey one on the server at work . He would go back to work for 3-4hrs to do his time sheet .(he said it was a difficult system to use) . He would come home at 9 10 11 from work hes a inspecter for Williams earth sciences . His pay cheak never was consistant with his hrs. Traviling was part of his job at this time he was working in Naples we reside in ftlauderdale . His birthday comes along he brings home a cake witch she obviously orderd her name was on the side of the box .She gave him a gift bag with a teddy and some nips and writes love your *****es. She framed picture of my kids for his previous birthday .She gave my kids a gift for christmas . She gets drunk and crys to him. She lets him drive her hummer for runs.She also made him a cd with love songs. She help him set up a myspace so he could cheat on me . Am i crazy ?

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Sorry for all you are going through .

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yes and he is not even trying to hide it. confront him. pack his bags and call her and tell her to come pick them up she can have him and he'll do it to her in about 5 years.

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There is a very slight possiblity that this is all innocent. VERY slight.Unless she is his secretary I dont think you are crazy. If she is then it may be innocent as a lot of bosses ask their secretaries to do those things for them.If sh is not then he is probably cheating on you.Speaking as a married man: However nice is the attention he is getting I would not let her do all these things for me.Good Luck.

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NO!! you are not crazy. Make him cut that off now. It is going to be rough. He is not going to want to. Guys do not like being told what to do. It will take time..like months. He may or may not be cheating the point is, this is not acceptable behavior of a faithful partner/father. First, you have to make a choice...Do you want to stay together? Take everything into consideration. He could be cheating. If you make the choice to be with him you have to stick to it. Jumping back in forth in a decision will make you feel like you are going crazy. Then, do not pretend that this is not going on. Make him remember who he is with and why he chose to be with you but consistently remind him that you are unhappy/disappointed or even disgusted with his behavior. If he is a good man this will hit home and he will start changing his ways. Please remember this does not happen over night. If you really truly love him and want to stay together be ready for some tough times. It really doesnt matter where he works because there is always time to cheat. People work together @ the same company and could cheat. When he starts to change you have to forgive him or you will never be happy. Dont drive yourself insane wondering what he is doing when he is not with you. PS just a pet peeve of mine: the only person who should be setting up a myspace for him is you. You should have that password and there should be pictures of you and your children on it. There are only two reasons for myspace #1friends:staying in contact is really important to some people and its sometimes nice to show off what you got ; ) and #2 hooking up: cheating or single. Your Guy is not single so what is left? Make sure he is remembers he is part of a family but with a positive twist. You don't want him feeling trapped. I hope he comes around. Good luck. Eia

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