Do I need to Wait?

janine · #1 26-06-2007, 12:35

Anyone can help me for this problem.I'm inlove for my boyfriend and i feel he is inlove for me also. Im 26 years of age , single and my BF older than me 19 years , married, and his religion is muslim.My relationship with him is almost 2 years now.He is marrried in a second time , dont have a children with her but he has a one daugther with his first wife.He spent most of his time with me ,more than to his wife. II really feel the he loves me so much...He said he will marry me and this coming august. But I dont have any assurance for that.DO I need to wait for him or believe that he can marry me , even his relationship with his wife still very strong..?????????Please anyone can help me for this Problem......

D W · #2 26-06-2007, 12:45

Why have you allowed yourself to be in this situation?!He is using you & his wife.Why would you seriously want to marry someone who doesn't respect his partner & has proven it by cheating for the last 2 years.

klingon · #3 26-06-2007, 13:57

Muslim men, are allowed more than 1 wife at a time.That 's something serious to think about.

nobodyz · #4 26-06-2007, 14:06

Ask yourself these questions:1) Would it be okay with me to marry this man and then lose him to the "next wife"?2) Would it be okay with me to marry this man and know that he may be with someone else?3) Why do I feel safe in a relationship with a man who is in a strong marriage?4) Would I rather stay with him this way than become his wife?I think the answers you find in your heart and mind might help you clarify what it is you want, what you don't want, and maybe what you should do.Good luck!

ronkpaws · #5 26-06-2007, 14:25

You are very foolish. He has been using you for two years,and you are not smart enough to see it.You should never see him again. He is a dirt bag.

g1rL · #6 26-06-2007, 14:45

Just let him go. Because if you still with him, at last you'll just get sadness and sorrow. Nothings good from become third person and who knows that he really loves you or not. Maybe he just want to have fun with you. You're worth for getting someone better. I know it'll be hard but don't be sad , OK. Just smile because you don't know who will fall in love with you because of your smile. Forget your past, life for ur present, and dream for ur future. Do something that makes you more happier, how about hang out with some friends and guys? GOOD LUCK. I wish God will you the best one. ^^

wheeliebin · #7 26-06-2007, 14:55

Take off your rose coloured glasses hon, It aint gonna happen! Your just one more of those females that are taken in by these guy's. Who promise you they are leaving their wife's for you. All they want is sex on the side! And they'll lead you along for years, then they find another woman and dump you! Come to your senses before it's too late!

C F · #8 26-06-2007, 15:55

'If I understand the Muslim religion, He can have several wives, If he can afford them. I have heard that he will have to pay the Imam or who ever is in charge of his Mosque a considerable amount of money to be married a third time. If you are not Muslim I would take a long look at the Qur'an and the way it says a woman should be treated before you deside to marry him.

Lady Domina · #9 26-06-2007, 16:05

You are headed down the path of disappointment.LD

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