can a rebound guy be a lover after some time?

Painhunger · #1 25-06-2007, 09:45

i am younger than her in 9 months, she says its a "turn off" for her to be with younger guys, then after some times, she started loving me, and we r in a rship now, but after her ex bf showed up again, she thinks about him, and she later told me that intitally she wanted to meet new guys as a rebound, but she feel in love with me!, and i was happy to hear that, but later on she still maintains light contact with her ex, he is overseas now, shall i worry that i will be a rebound only when he is overseas? or shall i trust her love for me?

turtle · #2 25-06-2007, 09:55

No, you cannot trust her with your heart at this time. She is confused and needs time to sort things out for herself. You may want to give her some space, that would be the mature and manly thing to do, rather than push a relationship on her that she could come to resent. Distance yourself a bit and see what happens.

Yahoo! · #3 25-06-2007, 10:15

i think u shld ask her to make a choice, esp. if u r uncomfortable with her being in tuch with her ex. It would be fair to ask her to take a call methinks.

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