Hello everyone, My husband and I have been trying desperately to have a baby for about 3 years now. He's a doctor so we've waited until he finished his residency/things settled down a little before starting a family.

Little did we know, I just can't seem to carry past 10 weeks. There have been 4 miscarriages, and we recently tried In Vitro...however, the 3 rounds we tried never took.

My husbands dream, besides being a doctor, is to be a father, and it has taken a toll on him, myself and our marriage.

Now, my sister is pregnant. I'm so happy for her, but her and her husband just got married and already they're expecting. It is hard for my husband and I to be around them, is that normal?

Since my husband is a doctor, he knows all of our options very well, and we have just about tried everything. I have suggested a surrogate but he said he wants me and only me to carry our baby.

Now he is just sad consistanly. I want to help him, he said he is just about done trying...
Please help...any answers are appreciated. I am coping with this best I can but my husband is on the verge of becoming depressed, and it breaks my heart to see him like this.
I don't need fertilty tips, I need help on how to help my husband. Sorry if I sounded harsh...but we know what is standing in our way, there is no need to consult doctors anymore.

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