arrrrg why me?? seriously!!?

Laulia · #1 25-06-2007, 20:16

arrrg i know people are saying oh you'll find some one what if i don't maybe i'm not boy's type maybe i'm too loyd or just arrh i don't know its just sometimes i feel onely seeng myfriends. i know i said before about my friends but they are sooo much prettier than me and most ofthem have boyfriends soo, here i am again stressed out an people probably are wondering why i'm such a weirdo!!

sara c · #2 26-06-2007, 07:36

there is a type for every one , there will be some one the same as you out there but you will just have to wait. try changing the places were you hang out and try to meet new people

Edward M · #3 26-06-2007, 07:50

It may not help much in your current mood but really all you can do is relax and just live your life...its what i'm doing and just see what comes my way

32nkikin · #4 26-06-2007, 08:09

Everyone has those days. I am a firm believer that there is a special someone for everyone, it just takes longer to find them for some people. Just remember, good things come to those who wait.

Mercia L · #5 26-06-2007, 08:25

Girl, with an attitude and self esteem like yours you will not get very far.Instead of wondering "why me" and feeling sorry for yourself pull yourself together and make things happen.

yasmeen q* · #6 26-06-2007, 08:36

believe me ur normal !!!!!ur not a weirdoand its not a ((must)) 2 have a bfmaybe ur not interested in bf and its ur choice no one has the rights 2 make fun of u HONESTLY!!!

The doctor · #7 26-06-2007, 08:45

hey they are right im the geekiest person on the planet and ive got a gf they are right and i preffer hangin with my freinds sometimes i feel sufercated sometimes

rebelangel91893 · #8 26-06-2007, 09:46

it sux doesnt it? i kno how u feelall my friends r sooooo prettyand they tell me o ur pretty 2!but of course they get all the guys and im just left in the backgroundnot that im saying that ive never gotten a guy b4 i have...but i didnt rlly like him i wuz pretty desperatedont make the same mistake i did....ahhhh!!!!dont wry i dont think ur a weirdodo u have any guy friends?just hang out w/them and they'll probably introduce u 2 some of THEIR guy friends...and oo lala hopefully theyre hawt! lol!

glamour_girl999 · #9 26-06-2007, 09:56

Never think pessimistically. Don't look at your friends and see what they have or haven't got. Look at yourself. See that you are a great person. Go out and have fun and when you least expect it, you will find the right guy. It's simply a matter of patience and time.

jeska102 · #10 26-06-2007, 10:25

Ok... you don't actually have a question but here's some advice.You sound young (less than 18). You will meet a lot of people when you finish school and trust me, you'll find someone. Finding a boyfriend shouldnt be your biggest priority. You find someone when you're not looking. Just enjoy life and be happy you don't have any relationship dramas, or have to go through the awkward stage of meeting the parents, or putting up with being jealous becos your bf is hanging out wth other girls etc.Stop focusing all your attention on this.

pinkpetal29 · #11 26-06-2007, 11:15

Relax!If you keep thinking 'I won't find anyone', or 'I'm not a boy's type' you won't be successful. Confidence is key. Love yourself this gives off a vibe that is positive, people like to be around positive people! Your time will come be patient!

Simon M · #12 26-06-2007, 11:25

I have a lot of female friends who always seem to ask the "ugly/fat/wierdo" to join them when they hit the town. Okay, they might just like their company, but dont you think it makes them more of a catch stood next to the ugly betty. Get yourself some ugly friends, hit the town, smile and hey presto... and dont be too picky, go with your gut instinct. Learn from the people you meet, their character traits usually help you identify muppets/wannabe's/or someone worth your time. Finally, get out doing something you enjoy doing...Parachuting for instance! Whatever you like doing, there your gonna meet someone like minded soon enough, and at least you've both got something interesting to talk about.

TLH · #13 26-06-2007, 11:35

What do you like to do? What are you good at? Which skills do you want to develop? What kind of person do you want to grow up to be? Doing what YOU'RE passionate about will bring you into contact with others (guys!) who are passionate about similar things. I agree with something a person said upthread - you find the coolest people when you aren't looking, when you're just going about your life, all by yourself, or with friends, happy with your own company. Having your own interests, skills and thoughts. Trust me, in a few years, once you're out of school, plenty of "someones" will come along. More than you'd think. Someones like you've never imagined. Focus on your own development so you can bring a strong, confident woman into any relationship you enter in the future. This will help you differentiate between any random 'someone' and someone who's actually good for you.

Sweetie Darlin · #14 26-06-2007, 11:45

feel u girl

IAN H · #15 26-06-2007, 11:55

Well if you're as stressed as you seem then that really is not an attraction to a bloke.He will want a lover not a fighter.