My kids are in a daycare/preschool and have been students there for the past two years. They love it, I like the teachers and the school, it's convenient to where we live, they offer an after school program as well, so when my oldest starts kindergarten next month, he'll be able to be bussed to the same center with the teachers and surroundings he knows and loves.

However, we've had an issue with the director and my youngest son. He was nearing four years old when he finally got fully potty-trained -- no accidents ever. They transferred him to the three-year-old classroom with the rest of the kids his age, then transferred him back to the older toddler room until he got fully potty trained.

He got fully potty trained a few months ago, but they haven't transferred him over yet, saying at the end of August, all the kids move up. This means he'll only be one year behind, instead of two, which is just not good enough.
The director has been out of town for six weeks, and supposedly no one can make the decision to move him WITH the kids his own age.

The child is starting kindergarten next year, and is in the toddler room, a full year older than his classmates.

Am I being unreasonable to say that if they don't transfer him to the four-year-old class (not the threes), we're withdrawing our kids and putting him somewhere where he can be with kids HIS age and on HIS level?

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no i think it is completely reasonable
you want your son (and any other children) to interact with kids their own age

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