Maybe you hurt him with your comment. Sometimes men get upset when they feel they are putting a lot of effort into a relationship and yet we don't see it...

The best idea is probably to set some time aside where you can both spend some time together without any pressures... you are probably both quite stressed with life and sometimes relationships get neglected... take some time off work and just spend some time working on your relationship, spend some time just enjoying each other's company.

If that doesn't work, which I hope it will, then you know there is more to it... Maybe speak to a counsellor, but I think the best first step is to try and work on it together... I have my fingers crossed for you both!

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