He is probably hurt cause maybe he feels that he has been showing you love and you just aren't interested in the kind of affection he is showing you.

For example, maybe he takes the trash out, helps with dishes, puts laundry away. Little things that make your day easier. That is him showing love. Maybe he compliments you on things, cooking for example, but you don't see that as loving.

Men look at sex as a way to connect with their wife and as a form of acceptance so he may be ticked off that you would withhold it from him. He may really feel like you don't love him if you are going to be like that.

Don't be a drama queen. If there are serious issues with him not EVER showing you love or affection, then you need to do something about it. If he does little things, take notice of them and say thank you. There's no law that says you can't plan a romantic weekend, nice dinner or trip to a sports event with your husband to reconnect with him. Enjoy your time together. Instead of complaing get in the mindset that you are going to do something positive to change things.

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