I'm a high school junior (almost 17), and most teens don't get drunk during middle or high school. the media overplays it, and kids at school who HAVE tell their stories, while the most of us who haven't don't go walking around saying, "guess what I DIDN'T do over the weekend!" Seriously. Don't fall into the trap of thinking that all high schoolers get wasted over the weekend. Some do, most don't. And most don't nearly die from the experience.
I'm sure you know this, but as a reminder, there is NO legal BAL for people under the age of 21. The legal limit is 0. If you're at 1.65, and weigh 100 lbs...you should've died, actually. If your friend encouraged you into doing this, then i'd say you should stay away from her and find new friends. she neatly killed you.

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