Well first of all let's evaluate what you said. She claims that she had limited contact with him. Yet she emailed him and lied to you about that. What makes you feel that she wasn't lying about the limited contact? Do you really think she would tell you the truth? I don't think so, not if it could result in you divorcing her. She may not even tell her friends how far she really went for fear the word would get out. Good grief why would he talk about moving closer if they just had limited contact? Keep in mind also that there are more ways to communicate than just email. I would keep a close eye on her. If in a few months you still feel uneasy, there is a reason. I venture to say that what she has done is going to cause you a lot of trouble in the trust department. Maybe she isn't talking to this man anymore but you now know her capabilities. What stops her from becoming involved with someone who is more close to home? Hopefully the counseling will help you both recognize the problems you have which caused her to slip up in the first place. As for confronting her, well she may truly have stopped talking to this person. If she is not guilty and you confront her this will cause major problems. These problems could push her back into talking to him. Just keep a good eye on her and by all means show her how much you love her. Good Luck

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