I know exactly how you feel... you don't trust your wife right now. Whether you see the other emails or not it still hurts because she betrayed you and your marriage. Is she sincere in the counseling? Do you see her trying to change the things in your marriage that led to this poor decision on her part? It is a tough call. My husband did something similar to me... carried on a "relationship" with someone mostly online... and when we first started counselling he went through the motions but eventually returned to his "online relationship" and I of course found out. It has taken sometime but he eventually has realized that he really does want our marriage to work and he is working on it. I still have difficulty trusting him even though it happened 3 years ago but I chose to forgive; and it is a choice because it didn't feel right at first, but that was an important part of us healing what was wrong with us. Ask God for some help, he can make things happen you don't think are possible.

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