Your mom sounds like she is overwhelmed with everything. Tell your mom how you feel. Tell her you need to talk to her and you want her to listen. Wait until your younger siblings are in bed for the night or it is just you and her home. I doubt that she hates you, you are just her scapegoat. Trust me tell her how you feel. I have been in the same boat and now have a better relationship with my mom because I talked to her.

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