It's unlikely that you're pregnant, but it's certainly possible. You'll find out soon enough. My concern here is more for the future, because while you may not be pregnant yet, if you keep finding yourself in similar situations, you're likely to end up pregnant.I was in a situation similar to yours as a teenager. In my case, I was taught that premarital sex was wrong. I was in a serious, long term relationship, and even though I had decided not to, there were a few times when I was making out with my boyfriend and things would get carried away in the moment and we'd end up messing around without any real form birth control. Very unwise.If you're in a sexual relationship (which you are), you need to sort out your feelings about sex and make a decision. If you don't know if you're ready, then wait... but if you're going to do that, do it. Don't let yourself get into this type of situation.If you think you're ready and want to have sex with your boyfriend... well, I personally don't think that most of the teenagers who are having sex are actually ready, but I also know that it doesn't matter what you say to them, they're going to do it anyways. Telling them not to is useless, and telling them that they're not old enough to make that type of decision is definitely counter productive. (I do, on the other hand, think that there are *some* teenagers who are capable of making responsible and wise decisions about sex.) That said, my advice to you is that if you're going to have sex, make sure that the person you're with is good for you. Really ask yourself if and why you want to do it... You have to be confident that it's for the right reasons, not because you wanted to be closer to your boyfriend or because your hormones got the best of you or any other reason that may not be good enough, according to YOUR own personal standards and values. Make a rational decision that you're confident you won't have any regrets.If you decide to have sex with your boyfriend, the two of you need to have a long conversation... make sure HE'S ready, too. Decide what type of birth control you want to use and what you'll do if it fails (which definitely does happen). And don't count on pulling out as a reliable method of birth control!My point is that the only *wrong* decision here would be to give this decision proper attention and then end up pregnant just because you haven't really thought this through and taken proper precautionary measures.
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