I think you need to get on the internet and research all you can about the pills you were taking, go to library every reaasearch avenue you can think of. Also you absolutely should immediatly go get a second and third oppinion from different doctors.If your doctor is NOT absolutely sure that there are BIG complications with the fetus, you should not terminate. What if the one who told you this is wrong!!! You need to find out for sure, or you could be terminating a perfectly normal healthy fetus. You also need to find out that if something is wrong, how wrong is it? If you can handel raising a child with a disability etc..Do not jump to any conclusions to fast, you have still a few weeks to research get more opinions from doctors and have every test done possible to find out. If you want to have a baby, or were trying, and you are married, you should not terminate but only as a last resort. You had sex and got pregnant, married etc.. it is not like you are a 15 yr. old girl who is a child yourself making the decision to have it or not. You are married and just because there is a slight risk of it not being 100% normal, you should not abort the pregnancy. I am pro choice and it is your decision, but you are old enough to be married, don't terminate on speculations that the baby may have a disability or deformity.
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