Sounds to me like she is actually a very insecure woman who needs to put someone else down to make herself feel better. When she comments on your profession...you really need to rise above it because you know that it's not true. If she walks in to your house and criticises the way that you keep your home you need to just be blunt with her. You have a right to be respected in your own house...just tell her that when she walks through your door she can keep her mouth shut if she has nothing positive to say...other wise she won't be invited (and I stress INVITED) back!

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